A Snow Day

 

Years ago we’d get many of these through the course of a New England winter.  Now, not so much.   It makes life easier for my guys, because they’re responsible for a lot of snow plowing, and it makes life easier for me when it comes to the barn chores for sure…. but… one can’t help but wonder what it means for our climate in general.  Our shorelines are being decimated every time we have a storm of any kind, seaside cottages, homes, beaches being washed away, roads and basements flooding  as the water rises and the winds/rains become  more harsh.

Today is the first real snow we’ve had of the season and it is beautiful.  The dogs rejoiced as they ran out into it at 5 am this morning, and then quickly retreated once business was done because brrrrr.

Everyone and their brother, third cousin and Great Aunt Evelyn and her neighbor were out grocery shopping yesterday due to the prediction of heavy snow, including the grands, who met up in the baby food Aisle with their moms in tow.  They recognized each other immediately with smiles and giggles.

We met with the wedding coordinators at the facility for my girl’s wedding  and  they are such a lovely group of people, this is such a relief. They helped me herd all the cats –  planning a wedding is such a big undertaking nowadays and I’m not experienced with these things at all.     I thank you for your suggestions on which dress I’ll wear, and it was unanimous – so I decided to go with dress B.   Below is the 1902 mansion where the ceremony and reception will be held, a lovely old sea captains home by the sea, a simple ceremony to be held on the back lawn if weather permits. This mansion has not been updated in a very long time, so it has the old world charm still intact, which I love.

 

Regarding the orange scream,  that piece of shit is still giving Putin high fives , all he talks about are the revenges he will execute, no regard for the law and so far has yet to be held solidly accountable.  He jumbles words just as much as the other old man some want to disparage, even jumbles history!  and lies outright, over and over again.   Now  and once again attacking  yet another military man, this time his opponent’s husband, for being “absent” as she campaigns- the man is DEPLOYED, something he would have no understanding of as he was a draft dodging cadet bone spurs. And where is Maleficent?   Nowhere near him. She’s not stupid, I’ll give her that. This country deserves so much better –  I pray for all of us every day, that someone of strength and integrity and vitality and ability to lead comes on the scene and saves our sorry ass government before it’s too late. It almost feels too late, we are so far down this divided rabbit hole of untruths and unbridled fury.  This is no longer about “policy”, of which I hold a mixed bag.   It’s about decency, humanity, security, democracy.

Sadly in this house we have never been more divided than we are in the current political atmosphere.  As an unaffiliated voter, I try to keep an open mind and vote according to what I believe are our most pressing needs at each election.  The husband is a staunch Republican.  Which hasn’t been a significant problem until such a raging narcissistic asshole took control of his party.  Now if I see Faux news on in the man cave, I walk back out.

*Sigh… it is what it is.

 

Till soon, friends – May sanity and peace ultimately prevail.

 

 

 

 

10 thoughts on “A Snow Day”

  1. I have just discovered your blog and am so glad I did! That wedding venue looks absolutely stunning and I love the photo of your dogs on the path. Our shared political view doesn’t hurt, either. 😉 Looking forward to following.

  2. the home is perfect for a wedding and your dress goes really well with that house. the dogs look happy with the snow. you go girl on the orange scream

  3. I love it when you get opinionated! I don’t understand how any thinking woman could vote for ‘orange cream’ – but these days I don’t understand most things that come out of Washington. Your Grandbabies are beautiful as is your dress and the wedding venue. Stay well and warm.

    1. I don’t either, it’s a dysfunctional disaster all across the spectrum. We the People deserve a functioning rational do-it-together government.

  4. Oh, I feel for you being in a divided house. Thankfully my RINO husband has seen the light and is staunchly on the other side now. Just wish he’d change his party affiliation. The snow is lovely but it is a pain to deal with. I’m with you worrying about the big picture when it comes to climate. All these extremes can’t be good and if they continue into the future? Well, we’re in a world of hurt. Take care.

  5. I’m excited for the family wedding I’m sure it will be wonderful All the important elements are alreayd in place . Are the kids on leftish side with you ? If they are how do they handle the dad ?
    You are a very strong woman. I honestly could not do it.

    Then again, I have militant socialists with two of mine, DIL AND SON< and she is in the LA government so she knows all the corruption and is VERY vocal if I am not outraged at everything. I am outraged at 99% of it but I've found raging about it at my age is literally harmful to my well being. I quietly donate and patreon my causes, children's well being/health, animals, environment, women's rights, and the unhoused. It's all I can handle these days.

    LOTs of prayers out into the universe off and on all day….

    1. My son is a republican through and through, like his father. My daughter leans toward the middle, as I do, but she doesn’t pay a lot of attention to politics.

      You’re absolutely right, raging about it at our age is not good for our well being – I try to avoid it but lately its so damn hard to ignore it, SO MUCH NOISE, so much crap happening, so much division and corruption and destruction in so many areas.

      I’m doing the same – donating monetarily and giving of my time and efforts to causes I believe in, ones that make this world a better place and help the people and animals walking it.

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