Small town, that’s me.

  Because I grew up in the shadows of the big apple,  I know what it’s like to have just a three minute walk to the candy store, the video store, a few blocks to the library, the pet store, hardware, the post office.  I know the convenience of ordering take-out and having it delivered to your door 2o minutes later. I knew that if I missed the bus after school, I could atleast walk the distance.  Actually, I didn’t have to take a bus until middle school. My friends were right outside the door most of the time… and my mother could yell for us to come in from way down the block.

 Around here there is no delivery service for take-out food, and it’s 2o minutes by auto to the closest major grocery store. Kids playdates involve getting in the car.  To run a few errands might take a while, because not much is close to anything else, especially if you’re looking for a decent pair of jeans.   ( Tell me, is there such a thing anymore?  Or is it just my aging body.  Nevermind)

But there is gold in these hills… in the form of generous townfolk who bake goods for your cause, who leave casseroles at your doorstep when your family is in crisis… who show up to help assemble and take down tents when they pass by and see you struggling  (understatement!).   It’s not always seen or felt or appreciated, this blanket of community, but it’s there when you need it.

     

 I’m glad we’re here too.

Patience

   I don’t have much when it comes to arrogance and ignorance.

 A comment left anonymously on my blog yesterday was put there by someone who believes all pit bulls are BAD DOGS, maimers and killers and they were bred for nothing else. This person would like me to please stop condoning their rescue…  and judging by the tone,  perhaps their right to live. 

 Anonymous, you were referring to Millie, who is an American Bull Dog mix.  Here is the description for that breed. –  American Bulldogs are typically confident, social and active dogs that are at ease with their families. They bond strongly with their owners. Young American Bulldogs may be slightly aloof with strangers but as they mature the breed’s normal confidence should assert itself. This breed tolerates children and can do very well with them, provided they are socialized early and understand their limits. The more exposure to good training practices, other dogs and people, the more likely the success at being controlled both inside and outside of their environment.

 I am going to assume, however, that you considered Millie to be a Pit Bull, judging by your nasty prejudice, of which this particular breed has unfairly suffered enough.  The description for that breed is as follows:

   The APBT is a breed that is loyal to friends and family, and is generally friendly towards strangers. Many have strong instincts to chase and seize cats and other fleeing creatures, including deer and livestock ( natural prey drive).  As with any dog breed, proper training and socialization at an early age is a must. According to the UKC, “aggressive behavior toward humans is uncharacteristic of the breed”  The American Temperament Testing Society shows a pass percentage of 86% for American Pit Bull Terriers as opposed to the Golden Retriever with a temperament of 84.9%   American Pit Bull Terriers generally have a lot of energy and benefit from exercise and stimulation to channel their energy properly and avoid becoming frustrated, bored, or destructive. 

When choosing any breed for your home or family, it’s wise to heed good advice and find a breed of dog that fits your own situation.

  As is the case with any dog, proper raising, handling,  and training in most cases make for a very loyal and reliable companion.  When cruel people enter the picture and torture these dogs to become something other than what they actually are, ( and certainly they PICK these breeds because of their strength)   this is where the problems arise and a dog can snap.  That doesn’t mean that dogs who have NOT been tortured aren’t capable of snapping, and that includes chihuahuas, cocker spaniels, poodles, schnauzers, golden retrievers, etc. etc. etc.

   The funny thing about pit bulls, Anonymous?….. even when they HAVE been abused… so many of them are STILL the loyal family oriented dog that you see described above.   Below you will see the proof, and these are just among a handful of wonderful people I’ve come to know.

A note from Hilary:  Many years ago, I rescued a pit, her name was Chicki. We ended up calling her Chickiwu, and most often….Wu. She was my first pit bull.  She showed me that in spite of the first horrible year of her life, that she spent in a crate, 24/7……that she still believed that there was love in the world. I think she set out to prove it. The only problem we ever had with her, was that with babies and all children, she wanted to lick them. I have fond memories of trying to do the NY Times Sunday crossword with her on my lap.


She ran across the road one day, a road that had about 10 cars a day, and was killed.


I cried for a year.


Her partner, another save, Eddie, was hit by the same vehicle……they were running side by side. He survived, but was so heartbroken, that he ate his tennis ball, had a bowel obstruction, and almost died.


Until his death two months ago, at the age of 14 and 1/2, he was loyal, loving, faithful, and true. He was a joy in our lives, that we will never forget. He never bit anyone in his whole life. When other dogs charged him, he wagged his tail until it was unavoidable that he had to defend himself.


Then there’s Roy. A big bundle of love. Who loves to ride in truck, go for walks, snuggle on the couch, sleep at your feet in the bed. He almost never barks, doesn’t destroy anything ever, doesn’t beg for food, smiles continuously, and loves hugs and kisses without end.



He is happy in the moment. He forgives, or forgets, that he was abandoned, and spent a year in a kennel.   Today is his day.  I will never have any other dog, but a pit. Their hearts are huge, their affection is unequaled. 

Someone told me once, that a pit will be whatever you want him to be.


Enough said.

PS. I highly recommend this book……..Inside of a Dog: What Dogs See, Smell, and Know by Alexandra Horowitz

And Deborah’s story… 

  I own an American Staffordshire Terrier, one of the bully-breeds targeted by media and ignorant people.  I purposely adopted a dog like this. I went purposely to a rescue and picked my adorable George.

I purposely adopted a dog like this. He is by far, the sweetest dog I’ve ever owned. Loyal beyond belief, loving, smart, his only want in his day is to please us.


Yet, I cannot believe, even from our own family, the ignorance and idiocy we’ve had to deal with.


I’ve heard that he’ll attack us in our sleep, he’ll turn on us when we least expect it. I can stick my hand in his food dish while he’s eating for crying out loud.


Let’s face it, this type of thinking is pervasive – towards some pets and certainly towards people.
We can help by living by example and putting the ignorance in a trash bag and tossing it in the garbage can outside where it belongs.

and…

 My neighbors of many years have a granddaughter who is being raised on her parents horse farm with two pit bulls.   They granted permission to use these pictures, because they, too, are disgusted with the prejudice.  No more words needed here.. the pictures speak for themselves.

Enough Said.

Dear Anonymous

   THIS DOG was abused,  neglected by a human being and ultimately abandoned.   She still finds it within herself to trust humans and show the kind and loving personality she possesses.  The breed itself has proved to be a wonderful family dog in many many circumstances.  It is the cruelty of humans who have destroyed so many of them.  Any animal, regardless of breed… and any HUMAN can turn on another.  You prove my point perfectly.

   In the future, should you leave another comment, have  the spine to leave your name. Anonymous comments will no longer be allowed.

Millie

Another sweet face who will be at our adoption event next Saturday & Sunday…

Millie’s Info…

Breed: American Bulldog Mix Color: Gray/Blue/Silver/Salt & Pepper Age: Adult

Size: Med. 26-60 lbs (12-27 kg) Sex: Female

I am up to date with shots.
Millie’s Story…

She was left locked in a crate outside the pound.  Her behavioral traits – active, quiet, submissive, alpha etc.
 She is the SWEETEST dog ever. Gets along well with other dogs. Submissive.Has the cutest little jingle to her gait!! Approx 5yrs old. (can you imagine having a sweet dog like this  for five years and then leaving it in a crate at the pound’s door?)

 If you’re local, come see Millie and many many other shelter dogs next Saturday & Sunday at Parmelee Farm.  Also, don’t forget to stop by our Bid,Barter, Bake sale in front of Rocco Field Tomorrow 9-2.

Down to the wire….

 Lots of planning, fundraising, organizing, donating, soliciting, bid-barter-baking going on around here as we get ready for the Dog Days Adoption Event next Saturday and Sunday….

Vanna is currently in foster, she originally came from a kill shelter and was saved by a good samaritan who saw a lovely little girl in her attitude.  She is approx. 7 months old and appears to be a Jack Russell Beagle/hound mix.  She’s just beautiful and sat on my lap for a solid hour during one of our meetings.  She will be at the event looking for a forever home. 

 For those of you who are local, stop by our bid-barter-bake sale on Saturday in front of the ball field next to the library. We’ve got lots of goodies and gift certificate raffle items from local businesses. Some great tag sale items too!….

OM-ing with Lynn along the Outer Banks….

  My friend Lynn is vacationing with her family on  the Outer Banks of  North Carolina this week. I asked her to do a guest post today on her experience out there, in tune with the ocean and it’s soothing vibes.   She’s a big fan of yoga and it’s benefits.   What a perfect place to practice the art ~

To me the beach and yoga have many similarities. Both bring me peace, a sense of calm and a safe haven.  Just as the tides are always changing, so does life.  Yoga helps to keep me centered and to appreciated all of life’s blessings for which I am truly grateful.
There are so many things to love about the Outer Banks, but I’d have to say my favorite thing is walking this same path every morning to sit quietly, practice a little yoga and take in a glorious sunrise. Namaste to that!
There is beauty in nature everywhere…
We love collecting all the different kinds of seashells after high tide…
..and taking late afternoon walks along the beach..
where we’ve come across some pretty cool sand creations by local artists!
To listen to the soothing  rythym and  sound of the waves crashing along
the shore until sunset is to witness an ageless ritual that has not changed
since the beginning of time…
There is peace here.

Made in America

    Some internet searching today revealed two sites with a grand idea.  If you live anywhere near Albany, NY.. or more importantly Elma, NY have you seen this store yet?

Made in America Store  ..900 Maple Road….Elma, NY 14059

716.652.4USA (4872)

The Made in America Store , (which opened on April 3, 2010). Located just 20 minutes from Buffalo and less than an hour from Niagara Falls, NY, it is the only general merchandise store in the country that sells 100% American Made Products, down to the packaging. Our mission is to restore U.S. manufacturing jobs by providing American consumers a brick & mortar store and e-commerce site that guarantees that each product sold is entirely American in materials and labor.

They also do THIS:  At the Made in America Store, we pay the sales tax for our customers. We also honor our active duty members of the U.S. military and our veterans by offering a 5% discount on every purchase, every day.

 I looked at some of their online merchandise, and while there isn’t as much available on line as I’d like to see, from the looks of the photos on their site, the actual store appears to hold much more merchandise.  I’ve decided I’m going to give their jeans a try. 

At $30, if they’re made well, I’ll be happy with the price.  If any of you live near that town and you get the urge to do a little exploring, stop in the shop and let me know what you thought of the experience.  I LOVE the concept.  I hope it flies.

Here’s another site to check out…

www.americansworking.com/
THis is what they have to say….

This site is dedicated to help you find American Made Products. Let’s keep our jobs home, lets pressure retailers to sell more products Made in the USA, lets ask companies to quit outsourcing
support jobs overseas, and lets watch over our school systems to ensure we are turning out the next great generation.

This site is not about Red States, or Blue States, it is about one big Red White and Blue Nation. Back when our brave men and women went off to fight the war to end all wars, I doubt they ever
envisioned we would loose the battle in our stores, when they fought so hard to win on the battlefield.

We Americans find ourselves in another great battle, the battle for our industrial, technological, and support jobs. The enemy is different and comes in all forms. In forms like cheap Chinese goods. China is not the only struggle we have. And to be honest do you blame China for pouring goods into the US. We have a huge appetite for cheap goods, we enhance our lives because of cheap goods we may not be able to buy other wise. But we are not really getting ahead. Yes you can buy a DVD player for about $50.00 bucks, but what are we losing? We are losing a lot, and if you will take the time to explore our site I think you will be convinced if you are not already.

At this site we are not protectionist in the sense we wish to have politicians place restrictions on foreign goods, that would be foolish. Our goal is to convince Americans to spend a little more for our own goods. That little price difference keeps another American working.

Thank you for visiting our site.

 So, if you check these sites out and find them worthy,
 lets spread the word in the blogosphere.
I’m ordering those jeans tonight.
Buy American, and lets keep it going.

Six Flags New England

 Holy crap!  That’s all I can say that sufficiently states my total shock and awe at the rollar coaster rides at Six flags in Agawam, Mass.  They’re not even rollar coasters anymore..no.. those harness things where your feet hang down and your body twists and turns and goes upside down and then backwards just… defies definition.

 These are the BRAVE members of our pack…

 

 and these were the chickens.
College girl was comfortable keeping Mom company on sturdy ground…

That’s me working on my shark phobia…

are these the coolest steps?…..

  

Do you SEE THOSE FEET up in the air????…………
and they’re actually twisting!!!

 

I prefer to stay down among the minions where it’s relatively safe.


 So…. are you brave? or grounded like me.

Happiness is…

…a well used birdbath amidst happy perennials…

….adirondacks side by side and a firepit to roast marshmallows….

..a farmstand like this…

 …the color of eggplant… midnight purpley-black
  

 happy little notes left by neighbors in our farmstand log….
like these….
See the smiley?
 These notes make our day more than any dollar amount …

 The soft little clucks of contented chickens…

… and their forrest Gump feathers that float and settle here and there…

 Little horses with bird groupies that follow them through the field…
  
 That face….

 These half-chaps and paddock boots…
 …and the first leaf to turn…

 Where ever you are reading this … tell me…
what three things bring happiness to you in your immediate environment.