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A Soldiers Perspective – Part 2
I would like to start with thanking you all for the support and encouraging comments, it means a lot to us. It is truly my honor to serve in the US Army. My experience over here has only reinforced in my mind how amazing the United States is, not perfect of course but we are so fortunate compared to most people around the world. Our pets have a higher standard of living than the average Afghan child.
We have been here for about 2 months now. We have settled into our living environment and our work routine as best we can. The altitude still seems to have a negative effect on our energy levels. Many of us have stopped taking our malaria pills because we are just tired of feeling ill every day. The small exchange on Camp has a lot more items on the shelves now that the border of Pakistan is opened again. The Green Bean Coffee shop is still not open, I’m not sure why, so I have learned to like the Mess Hall coffee. In our spare time we have been building a running track around the camp, the tread mill gets old after a while.
We also are putting together a volunteer fire fighting team since the camp has no real fire department.
I will say again that the Internet is our lifeline to home and family! I spend a lot of my free time on Skype with my Family or Facebook keeping up with friends at home.
Chuck Yeager and his wife came to visit us about a month ago. Things were kind of HOT over here when he came to visit so he was literally risking his life to raise our morale. Thanks Chuck!
During my interaction with the Afghan Army I have gained a great deal of respect for them, they are smart, tough, eager to learn, and devoted to the future of Afghanistan. The majority of the Afghan Army respects and appreciates what we are trying to do for them. There seems to be a small minority in the Afghan Army that resent us and would prefer we leave. The tension level has been rising a bit between us and them with the increased incidents of Afghan Army and Police attacks on coalition forces. I work for a Canadian Commander and most of the forces on this camp are Canadian, however there are forces from all over the world here training the Afghan Army; U.S. forces are a minority at this location.
Our mission doesn’t allow us much interaction with the Afghan civilian population; our contact is predominantly with the Afghan Army. We do spend a lot of time with the interpreters and they give us some insight into the Afghan civilian life. Most of our interpreters want to move to America, which in itself says volumes to me.
The People in Afghanistan clearly live a much lower standard of living compared to what we are accustomed to. Most of their houses are constructed of mud and rock. Food is sold along the roadside in small stands and shops; fresh cut meat hangs in the markets unrefrigerated. Small children are running around on the main streets unattended. Traffic seems to have no rules or enforcement. When we drive thru the streets it’s hard to tell how the adults feel about us, they pretty much just look. The children on the other hand have various reactions to our presence. Some children wave and give us the thumbs up while other flip us the middle finger and sometimes throw rocks; I’m not sure what to think about all that but it’s hard to know what their contact with US force has been like over the past 11 years. Afghanistan is clearly a complicated and conflicted nation after literally thousands of years of occupation and wars.
I would describe our state of mind as very alert but not afraid. It is hard to explain but you are so focused on the tasks in front of you and attempting to stay aware of your surroundings that you don’t really have time to be in fear. You are constantly watching people, vehicles and the terrain around you for something that might not look right.
We deal with so much just to move around you really don’t have a minute to think about what could happen, or maybe we choose not to? We do tend to joke around some which seems to defuse stress or fear. If you heard some of our discussion prior to going into dangerous situations it would probably seem odd or inappropriate given the environment but it is just a form of pressure release if that makes any sense. A typical convoy outside the wire (outside of our camp) requires putting on about 75+ lbs. of combat gear, carrying a rifle and a pistol, pre-movement planning and briefs, communications check, vehicle checks, reading the latest Intel reports and climbing into 10 ton armored vehicles. Just climbing in and strapping into our trucks is a workout wearing all of our gear.
I think it is important to let you all know that when it comes to your tax dollars I have seen daily how much better our equipment has become and it is saving our lives every day, for that I thank you!
Thanks again for all your support, I will send my cousin Karen another update in month or two, keep sending her any question you have and I will do my best to answer them. – Dennis
A Note from Karen: I can’t thank my wonderful readers enough for all the encouragement and support you have given my cousin in his first post, and I hope you will continue in this second installment. I am amazed at what these men and women are doing over there under difficult circumstances, and how much of their regular lives they give up to do so, always in danger. Yet none have a negative attitude, all I’ve come to know are proud to serve their country. I don’t think I could walk in their shoes… Dennis’s oldest daughter will graduate HS in just a few days – it’s not possible for him to jet home to see it. This is just one example of the thousands of sacrifices that are made.
If you have questions for the soldiers, send them to me at karenthisoldhouse@hotmail.com or leave them in the comments section below this post and they’ll be answered by Dennis in the next installment. Thank you for your time – and if you’re so inclined, spread the word of this post, lets show these guys we appreciate them.
The Graduate
Fast Food with a Conscience
Most of us do it from time to time… out running errands, traveling with the kids, a hectic day at work with no energy to cook… what’s the usual answer? FAST FOOD. I don’t even want to think about the number of cheeseburgers, bags of fries or cokes I’ve had over the years… or my kids, for that matter. I’m a decent cook and have done a decent job feeding my family for the most part.. but I have caved to the EASY on occasion.. and my husband and son absolutely LOVE those FF cheeseburgers. It is what it is. I don’t eat much of that crap anymore because it really isn’t very good for you, as we all know. And I usually feel yucky after I’ve eaten it.
HOWEVER… the other day I was out running those errands and it was cold and rainy and I was hungry. I didn’t want to get out of the car either… cats and dogs kinda rain. My choices in the town I was in were McD’s and Wendys. Now, McD’s hasn’t done much at all to improve their menu, and if you ask me I think the quality of their usual stuff is getting worse. I pulled into Wendys instead to see if their menu had improved. Lo and behold!!!… I see a big poster with a picture of a beautiful salad. I order it… and the new berry tea they advertise.
One of my favorite places on Earth
ave you ever visited a place for the very first time and had the immediate feeling of “home”? This is the case for me and Martha’s Vineyard, Mass. My first trip was as a young adult visiting my aunt and uncle, who rented a house there. It was love at first sight as we cruised into Vineyard Haven Harbor on the ferry…the sailboats.. the sea captains homes… this beautiful rustic seaside island not far off the coast. Looking down off the bow, the cold water churns a clean, clear deep turquoise and navy blue. I knew right away I could live there very happily.
How to describe the Vineyard vibe… well, unfortunately it has become very popular during summer months over the years with celebrities and politicians…. particularly Presidents. This has made it a very populated touristy destination and real estate prices have soared. There are lines at ice cream stands, waits at the restaurants, traffic through the towns, but you can also get away from it all to the more rural parts of the island… Menemsha, Chilmark, Aquinnah… Tisbury. There are country fairs, Illumination night at the Campgrounds, artisan flea markets, Organic produce stands… horse farms and trailriding, sailing, biking at it’s best. The beaches!! ooh, that wild South Beach… beware the undertow!… but behold the beauty.
This morning I booked a long weekend at the end of the summer for the family ( kids agreed to go! I think they like us!…. at the moment) and already I can smell the salty sea air and taste the Black Dog fish & chips. I check the real estate market on island occasionally, waiting for just the right little cottage to come up for sale at the right price. So far it hasn’t happened and maybe it never will, but the search itself brings me joy, imagining the possibilities regardless of whether they ever unfold.
Roses and rocks
Glorious weather today – so I did the housework that HAD to be done, and I went outside and finished the little rock rose garden around the greenhouse. I pulled stones from one of the few walls around here that Mr. Type A hasn’t had redone (I know it’s driving him batty, this one unfinished wall…. but I love it as is..SO!)….
The spacing along this side of the greenhouse is less than perfect because last year we stuck the remaining peonies that we hadn’t killed (poor placement) here just to get them through the winter. They are so happy here I dont’ want to move them, so this is their permanent ‘hood.