Tag: Family

 We are enjoying some glorious weather…. and this week the glory continues so I plan to do some  dog walking on the beach (which did not see as much destruction on Ct’s coast as last year’s Hurricane Irene).

 The guy and I ventured out yesterday, as did many others… it was great to see so many people in good spirits, faces up to the sun and out over the water, marveling at the beauty of the day.

 Now that the election is over, flared tempers have subsided and tension has eased at This Old House… I think we like each other again …..

My cousin is a recovering alcoholic who frequents AA meetings, which have given him a strong support system over the years.  I give him a huge amount of credit for continuing to battle and slay the demons that have plagued him since young adulthood… it takes an enormous amount of effort and I think we can’t really understand that unless we are among the afflicted.   He was given this plant by an AA member years ago, and my aunt has continued to care for it.  She’s moving, so she has brought me the plant to continue it’s care.  There’s quite a history in the AA “creeping Charlie”  or Swedish Ivy plant.

According to Wikipedia – William Griffith Wilson (November 26, 1895 – January 24, 1971), also known as Bill Wilson or Bill W., was the co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), an international mutual aid  fellowship with over two million members belonging to 100,800 groups of alcoholics helping other alcoholics achieve and maintain sobriety.

The Swedish Ivy plants, whose cuttings are given to AA members,  are descendants of the plant that was in Bill Wilson’s room when he passed away in 1971 in Miami, Florida.  His wife, Lois, took the plant home to Stepping Stones in New York where she cared for it until the mid 80’s.

She gave the plant to her housekeeper who in turn gave it to Michael Manning of Atlanta, George. Lois asked that she pass it on to members of the A. A. fellowship in memory of Bill. Michael has taken pieces of this plant all over the world, she brought it to Washington in July 1998.

This is a true A. A. plant because every time you pass it on, 2 new shoots replace the one that was given away and your plant grows stronger.

This plant is also sometimes called a “Creeping Charlie” plant, and it’s rumored that Ebby Thatcher brought it originally to Bill W. when he was in the townes hospital where he had his original spiritual conversion. Bill supposedly gave it this name after a friend of his named Charlie that kept creeping up on Bill’s back porch to sleep.

The writer of this explanation states:   ” I have a large plant of this type that was given to Dr. G. in San Diego in 1973 by Lois W., and then passed on to my first Sponsor Shedrick M. sometime around 1980. I was given the plant, as well as a short letter that’s supposed to accompany cuttings of the plant on July 4th, 1995 on my 20th AA birthday. It’s rumored to be the original plant, though it’s probably impossible too know the truth about it after all this time. The idea of the plant, and the sharing of some of the common threads of our history is what’s really important about it.”

I’ve told you about the 100 year old plants I have on my front porch, Cast Iron plants. They were an engagement present to my great-grandparents and have been passed down, eventually to me, for care.  My readers helped me identify what they were.   I love having this new addition at This Old House… a homage to all the hard work that people who suffer from and conquer alcoholism  put in every day.  My hat’s off to those of you who can relate.  If you care to share your story, as this disease touches many in different ways… please do so below.