Just call me Rambling Rose

  When I started this little ole blog, it was all about the rebuilding of this farm and house we live in now.  Then some a$$ started behaving like a psycho with very rude comments and I deleted the whole thing, including the raising up of This Old House once again.   I’m still heartbroken over the loss of the blog at that stage, I deleted too hastily and regretted it immediately. I was not able to retrieve it, no matter what I attempted.

 Anyhow, years and almost 1,000 blog posts later, (I kid you not!) I still love this space for sharing of stories, funnies, good times and bad, garden tips, recipes,  pet and livestock issues, your stories, our collective opinions on current events, new friend making, the list goes on and on.

  Now and then I hesitate to post what I’m thinking or how I’m feeling about a certain thing that might be controversial.  At first I didn’t want to offend anyone if my view came from a different angle.  I didn’t want to share negatives because jeez, we see enough of that all the time, don’t we?  But, blowing sunshine and light out into this space all the time just didn’t feel real, wasn’t really all of me, and so I’ve ventured into the controversial now and then and you’ve waded in with me, respectfully.  I love that about this space. And you are all part of the reason it’s such a joy for me to contribute to it.  Because you contribute too.

  Maggy had this to say in an e-mail to me this morning…

” Thanks for the thought-provoking posts and keeping your blog ‘real’ .. it’s what brings me back, time after time.”

Maggy, If I manage to make just a handful of the people who stop by here to read my drivel feel the same way?  Well, I’m the happiest girl in town.
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  I want to share a portion of an opinion I read on friend Mandy’s FB wall regarding the Zimmerm*n Mart*n  case.


  “It’s disgusting how everyone is trying to turn the Ge*rge Zimmerm*n thing into a race or gun issue.  Neither one of these people is a hero, and we shouldn’t think to have them be the focal point of any firearms or race discussion.  Don’t let the actions of two people of questionable morals you don’t even know turn you against one another. ”   


  Tragedy, it was, indeed.  Neither the young man or the overzealous neighborhood watch guy deserve what they have now… death, and a life altered horribly by poor judgement forever.  But what she said above?  I couldn’t agree with her more.

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Rolling Stone Magazine just lost another reader.  I am horrified by their choice of cover, as are many many others.  Walgreens and CVS have vowed not to sell the current issues on their stands, BRAVO. Boston Mayor Menino sent this response to Rolling Stone…

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  So, what have we learned this year in the garden?   Apparently, Tomatoes, cucumbers and Squash absolutely LOVE the tropical heat,  humidity and rain fall we’ve had in the month of July.  Holy cow, the plants and vegetables are HUGE.

Frasier is not a small dog.  These are HUGE yellow squash plants. 
Here ya go… Karen at 7:30 am, no makeup, no shower yet,
still covered in sawdust from mucking stalls and coop chores,
No air brushed wrinkles or freckles, 
no dark circle removal. 
How’s that for keeping it real 🙂
Notice those tomato plants are as high as my shoulder!
It’s a jungle, I’m telling ya. 
One more thing to share this morning…
I’m pimping my garden shed just a little.
I found this old metal rack at an antique junk shop
and glass bottles in other antique junk shops. 
I bought that old stool for the potting shed for $20… I think I shoulda haggled more..
and can I brag for a minute about these Lady Elsie May roses?
My iphone does not do the color justice.. they are a beautiful peachy magenta rose
that requires no attention what so ever. 
Connie of Hartwood Roses let me know that roses are not as fussy as we think they are..
and she was so right.
 Well that’s all the rambling I’ll subject you to today.
It’s going to reach 100 and the humidity is swimmable, 
I wish I were kidding. 
Stay cool, folks, and thanks for stopping by. 

Imagine that!

 I just changed browsers, and the problem is fixed.  Using Google Chrome for this post, no issues. So, the issue is with Internet Explorer/Blogger.

 Thank you all for participating in my conversation the other day regarding current events.  I enjoy these posts because while it may seem I’m just a tad opinionated (ahem) …I also appreciate another’s perspective and sometimes with that new perspective I see things a little differently. This is what I wish the whole world would do….  Create meaningful dialogue with an open mind.   I like to think I’m a tolerant person of the  unbiased non-judgemental sort.  Sometimes that’s not entirely true and I don’t mind being called on it, because it’s not where I want to be.

    About my dollhouse project… well, it’s at a standstill. I’ve gotten the interior work done on the floors and walls, etc… and there are some furnishings complete, but still no living room or bedroom. I’m thinking my Christmas List will contain those very things this year. With all the other bills we have, somehow purchasing this stuff for no-one-will-ever-live-there-ever…. just doesn’t feel right.  However,  I can covet a few things on etsy… see below.

You can see how one could get totally engrossed..
…and possibly broke… 🙂 
It’s been hot, HUMID, and now rainy here at This Old House.
I’ve been doing some decluttering –  always feels good to do so…
and came across this photo of my girl
when she was about 7 years old.
This was her first horse show, her first trail class.
Our horse at that time was a wing-nut , and would not calm down
at the fairgrounds. A good friend and neighbor, also riding in the show,
let us “borrow” her mare, Lucky Maggie.
Maggie was a golden girl, in looks and temperament, as you can see. 
As for that show shirt?  What was her mama thinking???
Oh.. that would be me.
Have a good day, all – 

Come, sit, pour a cup of coffee and lets talk current events…

If you visit blogs for sunshine and light, it’s not happening here today. Some of you have asked me what I think of the P*ula Deen fiasco. I don’t think I’m going to make any friends here when I say I think she is getting what she deserves. It’s not that she’s a terrible person, but I have no tolerance for prejudice and racism, not even in stupid callous jokes. She’s known among her colleagues for this. It’s not funny. Ever. Abuse of employees in this manner is never right… and one of her ideas – the hiring of all black men to serve at a dinner party representing a by-gone era she cherishes is kinda disgusting. There is nothing to celebrate about the way black people were treated back-in-the-day. Nostalgic? Hell no. I know she’s sorry now, because she was called on it and is now embarassed. She should be. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

That being said… Paula is just a tip on that iceburg. There are many rappers out there who call each other the “N” word. I will never understand this. Here’s something else entirely – why are there magazines such as “Ebony” and events such as “The National Black Writers Conference”, among many other examples? Somehow I don’t think there is a “Snow” magazine in publication and I doubt you’ll find “The National White Writers Conference” in session anywhere. No, I’m pretty sure those would be called… racist. So why keep separating blacks and whites in this manner? And there’s the religious aspect of all of this…We’re all created equally,and if you’re a God believing person, surely you hold this to be true… all his people were created equally, right? He loves all? Yet some of the most religious people I’ve met are also.. prejudice. How do they justify this in their own head, I ask you.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The barbaric acts we are seeing in the news are just mind blowing, sometimes literally! How about that Brazilian Referee who was attacked by a player, pulled out his knife in defense, I guess, and killed the player right there on the field! Then, the angry mob came out on the field and beheaded and dismembered the referee!! If you’re so inclined, you can see those graphic photos on the internet. What are they doing there, I ask you. Does the media ever think of the torture that must be to the families of the victims? And why do WE need to see it at all?

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Have you been privy to the mess that is the Osc*r Pistor*us investigation? This is what Bill Maher had to say recently… “I wouldn’t shoot her thru the bathroom door” is the new “I wouldn’t kick her out of bed for eating crackers” Funny, but not. Oscar claims he mistakenly shot and killed his girlfriend, who was in the tiny little toilet area of his bathroom which had it’s own door, closed, at the time he shot her. Apparently, he thought she was an intruder. He claims he felt vulnerable in his gated, security camera’d and alarmed home because he did not have his “legs” on. This turns out not to be true according to the evidence, which shows the shooter was standing at a mans normal height judging by the angle of the bullets and how they hit and killed his girlfriend. He shot her several times, all fatal blows… did he not hear her cry out after the first shot? Why would an intruder lock him/herself in a three by three ft. toilet? Did he not look beside him in the bed to see if his girlfriend was there in the bathroom before he jumped up and assumed there was an intruder? She lived there part time, after all. The kicker is… Oscar is free to leave the country and pursue his athletic career while the court system figures all this out. Something smells funny.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Speaking of athletes behaving badly… what a fool a certain football player is for behaving as if he is God and taking the lives of others whenever it suits him. Do you know why he had such a high opinion of himself? Because we pay these guys millions upon millions of dollars, an insane amount really… just because they’re really good with a ball. I can see a million a year if you’re so unbelievably good (and lucky to have that talent) at any given sport. But the salaries they pull are insanity. The NFL is not the only culprit. We treat them like they are Gods, we worship them, throw insane amounts of money at them… so why would we expect them to believe any lesser truth? Our educators, our law enforcement and rescue people, our physicians (well, some) and our farmers, all valuable and necessary and vital people in our communities, are underpaid. Our politicians and athletes are phenomenally overpaid. What’s wrong with this picture.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Zimmerm*an vs. Martin… a sad and tragic case. A young man killed, another’s life most likely ruined by the ensuing mess. This one is tricky. Was Zimmerman attacked in a life threatening manner? Was Martin an innocent just walking through a neighborhood? I don’t know. In general, if a kid of any color is just walking through a neighborhood -not doing anything wrong- , odds are he’s not gonna be shot point blank in the chest. No, there had to be some sort of provocation. However, was it the kind that deserved a bullet to the chest? Was this a hasty move by an overzealous neighborhood watchman? … Sad all around. The truth will never be known with absolute certainty.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Are we becoming a more barbaric society? Or is the media just giving us all the information we weren’t privy to before the internet and instant news gratification? I think the media is going to be our fall from grace in the end. It WILL be our end. There’s my spin, and it’s perfectly OK if you feel differently. I welcome all opinions, as long as you show respect for others opinions.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ PS.. BLogger is being a real bugger today, posting is almost impossible, so I apologize for the poor format. I hope to correct it once blogger straightens up and flies right. (sigh)

UPDATE! Blogger is still wonky…and I find reading a post with poor format is just annoying, so until blogger straightens this out, I’m taking a blog hiatus. As always, thanks for your comments, I enjoy the conversation.

Goodbye Good Fella

 We don’t watch many TV programs around here, but one that we followed faithfully because it was just so well done, was The Sopranos.  We grew up in Italian families and I was raised on Staten Island, just over the bridge from Jersey, where the show was “homed”.  Anyone living on island was  aware of the NY and NJ mob presence, thankfully unaffected for the most part.  The series was so authentic, and the characters so well cast.  Tony Soprano was a lovable hate-able character , thanks to James Gandolfini.  He was just as effective in other rolls, and ironically, a big hearted teddy bear of a personality in real life.

  Here at This Old House we are so sad to hear of his passing.
Good bye, big guy.  You are dearly missed already.
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We’ve got some good stuff going on for the next week..
so I’m taking a blog hiatus to keep up with it all.
You know I’ll be back with pictures to share.

Hero or Traitor?

   Well now, this is a very interesting development. Have you paid any attention to the story of ex-CIA employee Edw*rd Sn*wden and how he outed Big Brother?  In short – he exposed details of a top-secret American program that collects vast streams of phone and Internet data. His claim, in a nut shell,  is that he does not want to live in a society where the government can seize your private information and use it as they see fit.

CNN – “The revelations have set off a furious debate in the United States about whether the surveillance program is a disturbing form of government overreach or an important tool for intelligence agencies trying to prevent attacks against the nation.”

 Personally, I’m on the fence about this one.  I understand the outrage on both sides.   I see a need to track these assh*les who mean to do as many people harm as possible, and I’m all for disrupting their means of communication and thwarting their efforts. This method has already shut down some attempts, if we believe what we’re being told.   I don’t know that I’m comfortable with the knowledge that the government can peer into my personal stuff at any time without my knowing about it.   I also know that I’m not doing anything wrong here that they would find alarming, but where do you draw the line. Where will THEY draw the line.

  As for Mr. Sn*wden, some people say he’s a hero for bringing all this to light, at the expense of his own life, probably.  He was living the good life in Hawaii with a six figure job.  He gave all that up, and left his family!… to get this out to the public because he was so horrified.    Some say he’s a traitor and deserves prosecution in the highest court of law.  We know there was some real deceitful behavior on his part, yes, but was it for the good of the people?  Us? …

  What say you? 

Worry

Many of the friends we showed with last weekend
are out in Oklahoma City for a big Quarter Horse Show
 with their horses right now…
last I heard they were accounted for in shelters, unable to leave
because of power outages and flash flooding.
In the news this morning I have not read reports of horse
or mass people casualties, hoping my Quarter Horse friends are safe,
and their horses too.  I guess soon enough they’ll find out the status
of their trailers and trucks as well.
To all you prayer warriors out there, send a few out to Oklahoma today, will you? 

Looks Matter

  THIS… is what one of the Jurors in the Jodi Ar*as case had to say the day after the jury was declared hung, and the penalty phase a mistrial.    Zervakos said the 32-year-old defendant simply did not fit his image of a murderer. “When you look at a young woman and you think of the crime, and then you see the brutality of the crime, it just doesn’t wash,” he said. “It’s very difficult to divest yourself from the personal, from the emotional part of it.”

  It is proven that she did the crime, dude.  Hideously so. It was also proven that she has chronically lied  to just about everyone right up to and including you, the jury.   She even slept in the bed of another man just days after murdering her victim.  What didn’t WASH for you?  And.. you could distance yourself from the personal, the emotional horror of this man’s brutal death, but not her punishment for carrying it out?

Though the jury did not believe Arias’ story that she killed Travis Alexander in self-defense, Zervakos said he believed Alexander abused her. “I’m very sure, in my own mind, that she was mentally and verbally abused,” he said. 

So, not based on the facts that were presented, but just what you came up with in YOUR OWN MIND, and in her lies, PROVEN LIES…. you made the decision to let the jury hang?  At the tax payers and Alexander families expense?  

 “Now, is that an excuse? Of course not. Does it factor into decisions we make? It has to.”  says he. 

Here’s what I think factors in….Judge for yourself….

Women convicted and living on death row…
Women who beat the system in one way or another….

Notice how these women change their looks in court to appear less…
sexual? Manipulative?   Less capable of carrying out their hideous murders?
So, apparently… we are such a shallow lot….
that even in cases of the most hideous brutality,
…Looks Matter.
Just sayin.

*sigh*

Too many things I find discouraging today..
a Jury that “can’t get along” in the J.A. case?
Seriously?  OMG, people.. the money spent already…
and they knew the job ahead of them six months ago!
AND COULD THERE BE A MORE CLEAR CUT CASE??
They oughta be ashamed if they can’t come to a unanimous decision.
Ashamed.
While they are squabbling, she is still giving interviews, still smug,
(laughing and flirting with the court guard yesterday!)
still making excuses, still trashing the victim and his family. 
UNREAL.
Yet another heartbreaking natural disaster… 
have you counted the frequency of these events in the past two to three years?
If you’re not scared yet, you should be. 
I don’t know if it’s global warming or the natural order of the cycles of the earth,
but it’s trying to shed us in one way or another. 
Scary indeed.
I have been good about exercise,
terrible with the ban on crap food.
If there is a cookie in the house, it’s not safe with me around. 
*sigh*
WHY.. am I so crappy with this one particular thing?
Any advice on curbing the extra eating would be appreciated. 
I eat plenty of the good stuff  – veggies and fruit.. that’s not the problem.
I’ve got a horse show to get ready for today, there’s a barn bake-off on Friday night
and I’m making red white and blue cupcakes to bring along.
(and I won’t eat a single one …lie…) ï»¿
I’ll leave you with this picture of Bailey..
When Ben goes outside he usually leaves a rawhide on his bed.
The little ones take this opportunity to steal it and drag it to their bed.
They pretend to enjoy it immensely for about two minutes..
because HA!!.. I got Bens Bone!!
And then they just sit with it and guard it from each other
until he returns.  Then I have to pry it from them because he won’t,
gentleman that he is.
Like little kids, they are.
It’s a new day, people.  Let’s make it a good one.

Your two cents

 I’ve been following the Jodi Ar*as trial, curious to see what justice might be served for such a heinous crime.  We’re all too familiar with the recent Cas*y Anth*ny disaster. I wasn’t a regular trial watcher, but I was shocked at the outcome, that’s for sure.   There’s no doubt in recent years my faith in our government as well as our judicial system has tattered and frayed and I know I’m not alone.  It’s true we have one of the most civilized judicial systems in the world, however it’s also flawed. One issue? Proven criminals have too many rights.  Why is this woman, who admittedly obliterated a person hideously, granted permission to twitter from jail, to sell merchandise, to author a book, to give interviews with the media (and receive the hair and makeup assistance she requested).

  So here’s the question I pose to you.  Do you believe in the death penalty?  Jodi is awaiting the verdict on whether she will get life in prison or death. If she gets life, there is the possibility with good behavior she could walk in 20 years.   There’s no doubt she killed her ex boyfriend, horribly so.  If you have no knowledge of the case, she slashed his throat, stabbed him 29 times all over, and shot him in the face. After having sex with him, while he was naked and defenseless in the shower.    Yeah.       She claimed he was always abusive and physically attacked her.  There is no evidence to suggest this, EVER, in his life, or in her history with him. This includes her own journal entries and e-mails, texts to him, etc. etc.  and accounts from his and her friends.  There is PLENTY of evidence that she was a deranged stalker.   Now.. the jury did convict her (Amen) and they concluded the murder was an act of particular cruelty as well. Their final decision is whether or not she dies for her crime.   Do you think she deserves it?    I do.   

    First she asked for the death penalty, because she feels death is the ultimate freedom and she doesn’t want to spend her life in a prison. Those were her words.  (It’s all about her)  Then she changed her mind and is now asking for Mercy, if only to spare her family more pain.  Mercy she did not show her ex boyfriend.  She has not apologized or said she is sorry to the family of her ex.  She won’t even look at them in court.  She continues to grant interviews and continues to trash her victims character to explain her heinous act, even thought there is no one on the face of the earth to cooberate her  information. Just her lies. and she has been caught in hundreds of lies.   She wants her life spared so she can start a book club… start a recycling program at the prison, teach literacy and sign language to other inmates, donate her hair to locks of love.

    Does she deserve to live this life of purpose after what she’s done?  I think Travis would have given anything to have those opportunities.  His chances ended at the age of 30, thanks to her.   No, I don’t think she should be granted this gift of “purpose”.  And I don’t think  “the people”  should have to foot the bill for her existence while incarcerated for Lord knows how long.  Even if she gets the death penalty, she will be on death row for possibly 20 years, is that CRAZY?  There are women on Death Row who were convicted in 1989!  I understand giving her time for an appeal since this is serious stuff… but all those years?  What’s the point then?..

   In cases as horrible as this one, I do believe in the death penalty, but I understand there are many who feel that a life for a life is never justified under any circumstances.   I’d be curious to know what you feel the appropriate punishment would be then.   The question today is, is there a member of that jury who will feel the same.

Wicked

  It’s hard to believe all the destruction in the past few years caused by natural disasters, so many wicked storms…. lives, homes, neighborhoods, families.. destroyed. I’m sending prayers and healing thoughts today to those affected by the storms and tornadoes out west. My sisters son, wife and new baby boy were in a closet in Arkansas last night waiting out a storm, I’m hoping all are OK today.

  A few Dog Days pictures from this past weekend of  families with their adopted dogs below…

Do you remember Hank with the red bandana in my previous post?
Here he is with his new family. They came in the rain to meet him and fall in love.
This is Alexis and Tehran with their new family.
The mom on the right was crying tears of Joy when the bell rang signifying their adoption.
These two middle aged dogs were very bonded..
what an awesome thing to see them go home TOGETHER!
See the two volunteers in the background hugging?
We’re all suckers for these happy endings.
The tally was 69 of the 85 dogs in attendance were adopted.
The rest went into foster or back to rescue. None will die in a kill shelter.