The answer is no.
It was the right thing to do.
Middle aged musings from farm & hearth
Last night while we were sitting out on the screen porch, look who wandered over the hill to graze…
When I met my husband and we decided in quick order that we might be cohabitating in the near future… I warned him that I came with critters. I told him I’d always have a horse, a dog, and I had no idea what else, but a menagerie was pretty much a given.
Now I KNEW that he did not grow up with animals… the one dog the family had did not work out very well, and they keep beautiful, immaculate homes. He was used to a very neat and tidy order of things and I had a feeling this might be a HUGE adjustment for both of us.
And it has been. However in his defense, he has risen to the occasion many times and has even gone above and beyond, much to his own chagrin! I do keep an acceptably clean home, but I have two signs in our house, just to keep it light, you see….
For weeks we have been laughing at observing a male common house sparrow who has taken residence in our recycled- house-parts birdhouse. This year we placed it on the edge of the brick patio in the backyard. He has been sitting on it, chirping forlornly, occasionally puffing his feathers and defending it fiercely whenever another male bird came near. I wondered what he was doing, as there did not appear to be a female building a nest or co-habitating in any way. So I googled…
“The mating habits or courtship of the House Sparrow can begin as early as January and continue through July. The males claim their nest sites and defend its immediate territory. There is no defined area outside the nest that the bird defends.
The male chirps by the nest site trying to attract a female. When a female comes by the male chirps louder and more quickly. Sometimes the male will follow the female a short distance and hop or wing quiver around her if she passes by him. Other males may join in trying to attract the same female. Mating occurs throughout the breeding cycle, (March through early August) near the nest site, and may occur several times during the day. Once the birds pair, nesting begins. These birds are monogamous, usually for life.
Although lost mates are quickly replaced during the breeding season. ”
(what else is new)
So there you have it. I figured this guy has been trying real hard for a while now.. perhaps it was the location of his house that was making it impossible to attract a girlfriend. All the males defending the bluebird houses had mates already.. those were located away from our patio. My son and I moved the house and wouldn’t ya know… within 24 hours….
Besides my quarter horse, Opie, who long-time readers have met, I also have two miniature horses. When we decided to buy This Old House and renovate and the old farm went up for sale, it was clear I’d have to find them another living arrangement until I had a place here for them again. Opie went to a boarding barn nearby..and the minis have been living on a sheep farm.
Long story short, they are now back in my possession and I just didn’t realize how much I missed these two little horses. They are living in their old quarters on the old farm (still not sold) until we can get something up for them here. And while I’ve tossed and turned about the decision to build another barn, we’ve decided to bring Opie and a boarder home too. After twenty five years of having my horses right outside the door, (and all the work that entails) and then having a respite… I’m taking the plunge and bringing them home again. This time the barn will be smaller and easier for me to care for…. (oh, my aching back!) and I’ll have a boarder who will share in the work.. that’s a huge relief.