Just picked up my father’s personal effects – I cannot express adequately how strange it is to see his wrist watch in a bag, the ancient but still working glow in the dark dial, still keeping time as he was taking note not long ago…. the band that his wrist lived in for so many years. The gold chain and Anchor that he didn’t ever take off, from his boating /Staten Island guido days. A small delicate gold chain with a tiny anchor, heart and key in a gold box, all tangled, like the mystery of it’s owner. It must have belonged to someone who meant a lot to him for him to keep it, and yet I don’t know whose it was. How is that possible? I’ve spent an hour trying to untangle it, as if that will give me some answers. (Update: I managed it.) The worn wallet always in his jeans pocket. The body that anchored those things now ash in a biodegradable urn on a shelf waiting for the boat ride to his final resting place- his request. The photo books we made for him are worn, indicating frequent thumb throughs. I haven’t yet touched the clothes or the things he kept in his nightstand.
Even when you thought you did all you should do so that there would be no regrets, trust me, you’ll find a few.
Take the Virus seriously, please people……. it’s no joke, it’s not the flu, it’s not a hoax or political ploy. It’s real and still out there and needs your healthy respect.
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Beautifully written Karen…I’m so sorry for your loss. XO Amanda
(((Hugs)))
A sad day indeed. My continuing condolences to you and your family.
Thinking of you. One foot in front of the other… -Jenn
Beautiful post! I am sorry for your loss. Take care and stay safe!
Thinking of you always.
Bless your heart, Karen.
xoxo
It is a tough job. I’m glad you’ve made a start and hugs as you deal with the rest. Yeah, this virus is no joke and needs to be dealt with as such. New record cases every single day, folks. Stay safe, dear girl.
I also had a mystery like the necklace except mine was a stained glass window…..strange times to work thru. How all is well as can be expected for you.
These photos and your words are so poignant and bring back more than a few memories. And yes, there will always be regrets, even if you think the business is finished, there is almost always a loose thread.
Big, safe cyber hugs to you.
Sweet sweet. This made me happy and sad at the same time. I like what jeanie said just above me. There is always a loose thread! Sometimes I want to pull it and sometimes I want to cut it. xxoo dear woman