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  Wherever you hang your hat, whether it’s a condo, apartment, house or tiki hut… it’s a space you call your own. When you’ve had a bad day or you’re feeling less than stellar, where would you most like to be?  Probably curled up on the couch or in your favorite reading chair or under the covers in your bed… in your sanctuary.. your home.

   So can you imagine what it’s like if at the worst time in your life, when the chips are down and you’re most alone, there is no home.  No sanctuary, no place to hang that hat…. if you own one.

 Tonight I tagged along with my new neighbor, Carol, and her church group. On the last Tuesday evening of every month they come together at the Congregational Church kitchen and make a delicious hot meal using old family recipes. The food is then loaded into cars and taken to a nearby homeless shelter, where they serve approximately 40 people.

   I wanted to take them all home, especially the older gentleman who looked to be around 80 and in poor health. He was so grateful for that meal and a pleasure to talk to..and I thought  how does it come to this… why isn’t there a better solution for this man.?    There were also young men and women, all of whom look haunted. I don’t know their stories, but their pain is clear. And so is their need… our need… to take better care of those who have not been so blessed.

   Thankfully there are people like those I met tonight in the church kitchen.  I plan to join them on their next Midnight Run, a drive to the New Haven green and occasionally NYC to deliver blankets, food and toiletries to the homeless.   As I sit here typing out this post with all I need a stone’s throw away I realize it’s the least I can do, and I hope I remember to appreciate all that is good.  Every. Single. Day.

Misty Morning

    I’ve been walking this walk  for about 15 years.  It’s a simple country road and usually my mind is in high gear as I  walk or jog along… the worries of the day,   problems that need solutions, planning the day ahead,  fretting over what I need to get done or shouldn’t have done, said or didn’t say.  Yesterday I tried not to do that, because I’ve realized I never give myself a break from it.  Being “in the moment”  doesn’t come easy to me but change is always possible.

  It’s amazing what you see if you just let yourself  look.  I had my iphone with me, and although the picture quality is poor, the point is in these pictures. 

 It’s easy to  be absorbed in the problems of the day and lose sight of what’s right in front of us to enjoy, in that very moment.  Here’s to just “being”….

 This is a little cottage at the side of the road that years ago was lovingly attended to by an older couple who  used it as a summer retreat from their urban life.  It sits unused and overgrown and I wish someone would love it again… sad to see it abandoned.  There are still rose bushes from an old garden…
raindrops on a web….
A horse waits for his hay and grain…
And a boy waits for his bacon…

Don’t Fence Me In

 Actually, this particular fence is my favorite kind. A large portion of the back yard and into the field behind the house is being “split-railed” to give the dogs a big area to run without being able to run away.  A fine black mesh will also run the length of the fence so they can’t get through the split rail.  Sounds unattractive but it’s almost undetectable unless you’re right next to it.
In the above picture you can see the old well, re-installed and almost complete…
The backyard is shaping up quickly, Mike’s done a great job laying it out and getting it done.  He’s got significant motivation, you know….  he’s trying to avoid muddy dogprints tracked in from the yard and so he wants that grass to GROW… like YESTERDAY.  My transplanted perennials are still happy, so I think they’ll live.
Kitchen is coming together…..
A few more lights installed…
And today we start moving boxes over to the cellar….. ooooooh joy.

Aww shucks.

 Connie of Hartwood Roses  bestowed this lovely award upon me today. Thank you, Connie… for taking the time out of your more than hectic rose-growing, family raising, house renovation filled life to read my ramblings.  I guess I should let you know since we’ve become blog friends that I’ve been coveting your jeep for a while now.  *ahem*  
 I’de like to extend that thank you to everyone who reads and comments on occasion, I love hearing what you have to say and I especially enjoy checking up on your world too…
So.. I’m supposed to tell you 10 things that I love… hard to narrow that down! The given is my family.

I love spending time outdoors with my dogs…

I love walking along the beach on a cool summer evening…this is Elbow Beach in Bermuda a few years back…. it doesn’t get any better…. 
inhale devour candy apples during fair season…
I love old glass doorknobs on doors with more than a few coats of paint beginning to peel….
My favorite holiday is Halloween… some of my greatest memories of my children’s earlier years are the trick-or-treating walks in the evening autumn air, the smell of damp leaves,  giggles and flashlights…
 I love jeeps… this one would be really awesome. I had a jeep laredo for six years. When it came time to trade her in, we had to pull over about a mile from the dealership.  I cried.  And cried.  And my husband thought I was nuts.  Finally pulled in to the dealership to pick up the new vehicle – a 4runner – HATED IT… and felt like such a traitor.  I cried again as I handed over the keys.  There are some things you should never give up, I believe that jeep was one of them.  *sigh* 
Barn swallows are among my favorite birds…
I love Martha’s Vineyard… for a hundred reasons…
I love glass paperweights… have been collecting them for years… this is a Peter Raos, one of my favorite glass artists…
Horses have been a great love of mine since way before I lived anywhere near one.  This is my horse, Opie…  a trail ride with Opie is my therapist couch.
Now I’de like to bestowe this award on a few talented bloggers who I enjoy following…
Ms. Anthropy, Sarcastic Granny  (oh no, Ms. A… you’de better get busy.. bestowed twice!)

Blueberry Buckle

 One of my favorite foods in the whole world are blueberries.  My grandmother Elsie used to make the most awesome pies… blueberry when she knew I’de be there to share it.  On summer evenings we’de sit out on her back porch eating plump blueberries sprinkled with sugar in a bowl full of cream. 

One of my favorite childrens books…(wish I still had my copy)… Blueberries for Sal, by Robert McCloskey.
Some random facts about blueberries: 
Did you know…..that early American colonists made grey paint by boiling blueberries in milk.
The blue paint used to paint woodwork in Shaker houses was made from sage blossoms, indigo and blueberry skins, mixed in milk.
Blueberries contain significant quantities of both antibacterial and antiviral compounds, and have a reputation in northern Europe of fighting infections. They may also help protect against heart disease.
The blueberry is the official berry of Nova Scotia.
The blueberry is the official state fruit of New Jersey
Maine produces about 25% of all the blueberries grown in North America (1998, wild and cultivated combined) and is the largest producer of wild blueberries in the world.
Blueberries are literally bursting with nutrients and flavor, yet very low in calories. Recently, researchers at Tufts University analyzed 60 fruits and vegetables for their antioxidant capability. Blueberries came out on top, rating highest in their capacity to destroy free radicals.

 

The recipe below is Martha Stewart’s Blueberry Buckle.  Photos courtesy of google.
1 ten-inch round cake or 2 six-inch round cakes

1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, room temperature, plus more for pan
2 cups all-purpose flour, plus more for pan
1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
3/4 cup sugar
1 large egg
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1/2 cup milk
5 cups wild or cultivated blueberries
Struessel topping (see below)
Directions
Heat oven to 350 degrees. Butter a springform baking pan, and dust with flour, tapping out excess. Set aside. In a medium bowl, sift together the flour, baking powder, and salt; set aside.
In the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, cream butter and sugar on medium speed until light and fluffy, about 3 minutes. Reduce mixer speed to low, and add egg and vanilla, beating until fully combined.
Add reserved flour mixture, alternating with the milk, a little of each at a time, starting and ending with the flour mixture. Remove from mixer. Gently fold in blueberries.
Pour batter into prepared pan; sprinkle streusel topping over cake. Bake until cake tester comes out batter-free, 60 to 70 minutes. Transfer to a wire rack to cool for 10 minutes. Remove from pan; cool for 15 minutes before serving.
From Martha Stewart Living, July/August 2000
 
Struessel topping…
Makes enough for 1 ten-inch cake or 2 six-inch cakes

1 cup all-purpose flour
1/4 cup packed light-brown sugar
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/4 teaspoon salt
6 tablespoons unsalted butter, room temperature
Directions
In a medium bowl, combine flour, sugar, cinnamon, and salt. Using a pastry blender or fork, cut in the butter until fine crumbs form.

Using hands, squeeze together most of the mixture to form large clumps.

No man is an island…

 It took many men to put this house back together, and while it’s true there have been glitches and bumps and fist fights  disagreements along the way, there has also been a fantastic collaboration of real talent among these men to make This Old House what it is becoming. I see the weariness in their faces now… many long months of working on top of and around and underneath each other, and when the going got tough, sometimes the tough got psychotic   coffee!…  but look what they’ve done.  I hope they know how good they are….how well their talents are coming together.  

Jeff working on trim …

and island issues….there were a few.
The Klausen crew in front of one of their works of art…
Steve Seeley on top of his work of art…. he’s almost through the roof!
Pete, Mike’s right-hand man ….
Mike S. is new on the job…here he is installing shelving in the kitchen pantry.  Hey Mike.. a word to the wise… don’t move Steve’s rocks, like..ever… or ask Jeff to move his truck. 
Just sayin.
We’ve tried to find fixtures that were vintage looking….
Floor grates…

Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil

 Now there’s a good book, and I bet you thought this might be a very interesting post.   I wish I had something witty to write here, but alas, the reason it sits up there as the post title is because these fountains I’ve been drooling over at the local garden center remind me of those old Savannah gardens.

One of my most favorite things to do this time of year is browse the local greenhouses.  I rarely leave empty-handed, and today it took much willpower to walk away from these fountains without a purchase.  Could have something to do with the fact that it would require a second mortgage or a big lottery win.  

   Savannah… Someday I’ll get there for atleast a visit… it’s on my list.  Perhaps I can convince the Man that it would be cheaper to just buy the  fountain. …for now.

Shutter Island

   I haven’t seen the movie yet, but the book is mind-bendin. If you’re looking for a page turner that keeps you on the edge of your seat, this is it.  I also read Mystic River by the same author, Dennis Lehane.   A good read, but not quite like this.   What surprises me is that the movie has already come and gone in  theatres without a huge amount of fanfare.  The book is often better than the movie and this might be the case with Shutter Island.. however I’m finding that hard to believe. The cast seems a perfect fit  and the mood created by Martin Scorsese is legendary.

Taken for Granite

Yesterday the granite was installed in the kitchen and I love it. We opted for the “leather” finish, which really means it wasn’t polished to a high sheen, left in its more natural state.   The granite guy was aghast at my choice because he said it had alot of imperfections..as in huge veins and blotches of different stone and colors within the granite.  That’s exactly why I love it.
I found these funky reworked wood mirrors in the restoration hardware catalog.  Installed yesterday in the master bath. Now that the floors are laid down, the vanity has been installed too.
This morning I hijacked various perennials  from my current garden….
and put them here…
Thank you, Advil, for making it all possible.

Learning to be still….

  The first year there was a lone goose.  He or she stood out there in the front field day after day in the spring rain and sunshine…waiting?  Longing?  Confused maybe.  Alone for sure.  The next year the goose returned, still alone. 

   This year… not only did he or she arrive with a mate… they moved down to the pond behind the house and started a family.  My son came bounding in the house this afternoon… “Mom, bring your zoom lens!”…
  and we saw this….
 One of the very first things we did as a family when we moved to our current farm was hop on the lawn mower and tractor and go down to the pond to mow.   The grass had grown tall and the phragmites had taken over a large section of the pond and we were anxious to clear it out so that we could lounge around out there and enjoy the peaceful setting.   It occurs to me now that we didn’t do enough of that. We got tangled in the every day race.   We haven’t quite learned yet how to be still.
 Perhaps in This Old House……