Fake

       Along with some of the stuff  around This Old House, I put Spring in my blog header yesterday – just in time for more snow.  I’m not complaining, though – as we’ve honestly had very little snow accumulation this winter. While I love the beauty of it, and it is indeed coming down in a gentle flurry as I gaze out my office window this moment,  I don’t like the work it creates for me on the farm or my boys on the job sites. 
    My mini horses, Coady and Lacey, like living up at the big barn now that they’ve taken over Opie’s stall.   In the photo below they were begging for peppermints – spoiled kids, they are! We all  still miss my favorite redhead, probably always will.   Opie was certainly the leader of the herd, and that’s more evident now than ever.  The other two Max’s… our retired show horse and my friends horse seen in the pic below, still look out over the fields wondering when he’ll come trotting over the hill.  They don’t venture into the upper pasture without him – they walk up to the opening in the stone wall but they don’t go through it – as if they’re wary of what could be out there.  Or what’s no longer out there to protect them.  Without his leadership they seem a little lost, a little adrift.  They don’t particularly like each other, these two old men – and so more often than not, they stand  grazing or gazing, far apart in the field, where they used to tag alongside Opie wherever he went.  
   

    Coady and Lacey have each other, crying for the other if we separate them for even a few minutes.  Animals form relationships, they care about each other, they miss each other when one leaves – don’t ever doubt it.

 Every so often,  our Max hears something on the wind he must think is a whinny from Opie, and he returns the call, over and over again until finally no answer brings Opie back and he gives up.  Breaks my heart.

   It does my soul good to give this old man the retirement he so deserves after many years as a faithful servant to several different showfolk.   I wish his buddy were here to enjoy that retirement with him.  We were supposed to grow old together, me and that redhead –  Wouldn’t it be something to be reunited with those we loved and the animals that were also a part of our lives, when our time here  is up. I’ll continue to hope. 
       So why the post title, FAKE?  let me ‘splain…. I took a walk on the wild side and ordered the cowhide rug I’ve been coveting for many years.  Something about that look has always appealed to me but we didn’t have quite the right spot for it or the appropriate decor and no one else up here in this house approved.  One other little detail… I couldn’t get past the idea that I’d be walking on and looking at the actual hide of a cow – one who walked the earth and cherished his or her life as much as I did mine.  That’s kinda silly and hypocritical thinking, since I’ve certainly owned leather shoes and jackets, gloves, and I eat meat.  Still – I couldn’t do it, go figure. 
   Until… I saw these on Overstock for a decent price.  
 ( I love the abode depicted in this photo but it’s not very cozy, is it. Seriously… who’s gonna sit in that hard little chair and settle in with a good book or  watch a netflix original?  That chair right there reminds me of the little desk chairs in grade school that most of us couldn’t wait to get out of
   Fake cow hide rugs! that actually look real… LOVE! 💗  They come in a few different hide patterns, this is the one I chose.   Now.. I don’t have the magical touch some designers have where they can through a whole bunch of different elements and styles and vintage and new pieces into a room and it comes out looking fabulous. But.. what I do throw together at least I hope looks inviting, or warm, or interesting, or something along those lines.  
   It was delivered today in all this snow, and here’s where I threw it.   The Wingback chairs were given to us by the previous occupant of  our home and have moved around the house periodically – not of their own steam, thankfully.  What do you think?   I’m still not sure it belongs, but who’s writing the rules, anyway?

    

Winter in New England and a peek at Stellas Current Interior Situation

     I am eternally grateful for living in an area of the country I truly love. In my much younger years I believed I was meant to live in warmer climes, but as I matured I came to appreciate all that the four seasons have to offer, in particular the natural beauty that amazes with each turn.  We have beautiful farms,  historic homes, buildings, neighborhoods,  cultural exposure in our cities (both New York and Boston are within two hours reach), decent school systems and Universities.  The diversity of our people is the icing on the cake. Oh, I’m aware of the -snob or aloof- rep New Englanders have – truth is I haven’t seen much of it.  We have some real Salt of the Earth People in these parts and they value our homeland in the same ways.    Love where you live?  In the comments, share your location and it’s treasures.  
   Farm chores during the winter season can be trying, however. A Two week respite down south sure sounds great right about now.  These are the days when I look at my Florida folks pictures and say – oh, wouldn’t that be nice in the month of January or February, when the cold starts to grate.
      My  horse herd are all geriatric at this point. The three big amigos are still ridden when the ground allows it. I keep them blanketed in winter to help them keep weight on – a task that becomes more difficult for horses as they age.  If only that were true of people! It gets easier and easier to keep weight on as the years roll forward.. *sigh. 
Opie is now 20 years old.. 
Max is 21….
And little Max is 29-ish. 
The minis have coats but they are only used in temps below 20.These guys have a very heavy natural winter coat as you can see.   Coady and Lacey are 18 and 19 years old this spring…

My chickens are an aging flock too… the oldest two are six years old, no longer laying. In winter months I give them oatmeal sprinkled with fruit. If it doesn’t help them stay warm, it makes me feel better anyway.  Who woulda thought I’d become a doting chicken mama.

We’re expecting more snow today…. the guys will be plowing and I will be worrying that they are ok out there. 
Meanwhile… down by the sea…
   The guys have moved inside now that the exterior is complete – grateful because the temps have dropped, even more so down by the water. Stella is getting some beadboard work and the kitchen wall has been pulled out, a counter with stools will replace it.  The counter area will be small…. so we’ll go to our granite and marble supplier to pick out a chunk of leftover something for a discount price. The kitchen itself is very small, but with that wall removed the whole cottage has a more open feel, the cooking space not  so claustrophobic. 
The pano distorts the way the cottage is laid out, put you get the picture…
 The old farmhouse sink is a gem we shall keep.  The counter will run along that stretch on the right, the small range will be where that white microwave the guys are using sits right now. Small fridge on opposite wall.  

 Till soon, friends… 

Christmas Spirit

 
   I love Christmas. 💖
   But.. something is different this year and I didn’t give it much thought until last week when I dragged all the decorations up from the basement. 
 My kids don’t live here anymore.  
   We had a family right away after marrying, and so all of our Christmases except the very first one together have been mostly about the kids.  Oh, how I have loved that experience.   The toy shopping,  the present hiding, the surprise building, the cookie and gingerbread house making, the stocking stuffing and tiptoeing at midnight to fill the tree skirt to overflowing with gifts for the next mornings surprise.  The Christmasy breakfast with monkey bread for pulling apart, the big fire in the fireplace as we opened presents usually early AM, because anticipation, you know.
   So I hoisted all the decorations to the first floor.. and  looking at all the boxes I thought.. well, maybe not so much this year. It’s just us.  A sadness blanketed my Christmas Spirit…  But the manchild stopped in shortly after and said “Where’s the ***, and are you putting out the ***?  “Where’s the star plate? I love that star plate”.  
   And the girlchild came by looking to see if maybe I had a few extra decorations because they’re tight on money  having just ventured out together on their own and could we spare a piece or two? She also made a few gifts for family this year and she said “It feels so good to MAKE something you know another person will enjoy”.  
   They’ve been paying attention, and I do believe they have the same Christmas Spirit in their hearts that their father and I do.   I’m loving Christmas all over again, the lens in the glasses just needed an adjustment.  Sorta like this aging deal. And you know, just as in aging, I’m damned lucky to have a reason for the  need for the lens adjustment.  Biggest Gift of all. 

 K made this in Kindgergarten….

M made this in kindgergarten too…

My mother had this made when I was born.. it has my name and birthyear on it….

We use the Christmas Spode all during the season as our daily plates.. why ever not.

Christmas cactus in full bloom… 

   We all have our trials, the spectrum is wide and varied. Wherever you find yourself and your loved ones on that spectrum this year, may the spirit of the season surround you in the ways you find joy and peace of mind.  May the threads of kindness in our Humanity prevail – 
 
    Bless Us Everyone 







  

Autumn at This Old House

  Blogging used to be a daily thing around here – When I picked up my editing job again for a local publication I  let it fall by the wayside, admittedly.  There’s just so much time in a day that I  am willing to give up in order to sit in front of a computer screen. For those of you who still drop by and join the conversations, I thank you for your time and sharing of views. 
   The blog was originally a way for me to document the restoration of This Old House here and people loved watching the transformation. I was happy to share. Some idiot on the internet started leaving really odd and sometimes nasty comments so I deleted the whole thing out of fear.   Never let fear get the best of you –  I regret it to this day, and cannot retrieve the archives… I tried and tried again…. Anyway.. I tell you this because there is a new project on the horizon, a renovation that I will share here shortly. Stay tuned…  I was going to start another blog on the transformation, but instead I’ll just keep tabs on it here.  Lets call it… Once Upon A Tide… 
   Have you peppered your home with autumn yet?  I love acknowledging the seasons with their hues, the natural elements brought inside and some whimsy too. This year both my children have places of their own and I have handed over some of the fall and Halloween decor so they can do the same.  They both appreciated the effort when they were younger and it appears they will continue the traditions as well, does my heart good to see it. 

     My son and his girlfriend adopted this beautiful kitten last week. They are head over heels in love.  Her name is Lily and she adores them just as much.  So many cats and dogs at the shelters all across the US – consider adopting when you add a pet to your family.  You are indeed saving a life. 

   Mom has been at a cottage on the water for the last two weeks of summer into fall.  We’ve enjoyed a few amazing sunset dinners on the deck, located on Long Island Sound… doesn’t get any better than that.

 Speaking of dinners.. this dish has been going around facebook in video form – Chicken Caprese- I don’t have the recipe but followed the video and will put it in simple terms below… easy, delicious, and good for you.

Chicken Caprese –  Put some olive oil in a large pan, saute chicken cutlets (or breasts but we prefer the thinner cutlet) in oil six minutes each side or until nicely browned, salt and pepper each piece when you begin.  Remove chicken after browned/cooked on both sides and add balsamic vinegar and chopped garlic to pan. Sautee for a minute and add halved cherry tomatoes… simmer for five minutes, add chopped basil, place browned chicken cutlets over the tomato mixture, place slice of fresh mozzerella on top of each chicken piece, place cover over pan to allow cheese to melt over chicken… remove cover and serve with warm toasty garlic bread.   YUM! 

Come. Sit. Stay.

  The porch is officially open here at This Old House…. let me not ever live in a house where there is no porch.  I grew up in an old farmhouse smack in the middle of a Staten Island, New York neighborhood where houses were stacked close together.  Our house was the original, built in the 1800s, before the area became a ‘hood.   On the front of that old house was a porch, where many a rain stormy day was spent watching the drops fall around us,  perhaps catch the neighbors arguing or playing cards or reading on their own front porch, and it offered shade for sipping lemonade or iced tea on hot summer days.

   When we re-built This Old House – we knew what we had to add – a porch. There’s one on the front, facing the road – which we rarely use. The rear porch looks out over our gardens and the hay fields and horses up on the hill. It’s screened in summer to keep out the bugs and glassed in winter to retain some heat. On a cold winter day where the sun shines bright, it warms up enough so that  we can still sit out there with a cup of coffee comfortably and enjoy the view, maybe even read a bit of the book currently occupying the nightstand.

(that’s a jeans rug crafted by Hilary of Crazy as a Loom – so durable, just love it) 

   Today after getting the various “stuff” done that needed doing…. I looked at the beckoning porch and said.. why ever not.  I grabbed my new read – Susan Branch’s Isle of Dreams.. and sat in the reading chair, a light breeze flowing through. I highly recommend giving yourself time in your busy day, time to just relax and let go of whatever might have your knickers in a knot.

   If you’re not familiar with Susan Branch, she is an author and illustrator who resides on my favorite Island, Martha’s Vineyard.  I love her water color illustrations, as well as her writing style.. and oooh, her recipes are divine.  Her real life fairy tale story is one of courage in the face of heartbreak, and resilience.  My current read – Isle of Dreams, is hand written and illustrated by her- an amazing feat, and feast for the eyes and soul.

Below is just a sample of the writing and illustrations in her books… there are three. 

Quotes like this one are sprinkled throughout the books.. you feel the warmth she envelopes around you with her style, her illustrations.. her humor and grace. Kind of like the comfort of sitting on your porch with a cup’a…  watching the world go by… 

before and after

  SO, the New England grey has descended, and the best remedy for that in my opinion is to pick something in the house that needs rejuvenation.    That would be our bedroom.  I went to Bed, Bath and Beyond to see what might inspire me… and found -lots-.   I came home with a few bags full of stuff and two rugs… and spending just hundreds, not thousands, the room was transformed in a half hour.

ahhh.. that feels better. 

Home

     Something I have always believed in is how important it is to put effort into making your home a place of respite, a refuge, a welcoming space. My grandmother had a small house that she made so warm and inviting for family and friends and I appreciated it even as a child.
      We can’t control what goes on outside but whatever we face, being surrounded by things we love and feeling embraced when we walk in the door is so important. That doesn’t have to mean -money- or big elaborate spaces. A collection of beach rocks….feathers found on woods walks… The kids art projects, dog toys heaped in a big basket,  etc… All free, all add warmth and meaning. Choosing colors you find soothing or energizing for wall paint, sheets, pillows, etc. goes a long way and doesn’t break the bank. Switch up the furniture in a room, gives a whole new feel. Sometimes it gives the furniture a whole new purpose. 
     In my frustration over the horror show that is the news, I’ve taken a look around the house and de cluttered some, switched up furniture, bought a half price sale rug and put it in the bathroom. Feels like rejuvenation without spending much at all. Feeling down? Take a look around and de clutter, swap around, add a color. It’s good for the soul.
     The road home is more enjoyable when you know you’re landing in a place of peace. I wish that for all of you – 


This area held the kitchen table until a few days ago when we moved it over to the fireplace and swapped this stuff into the space instead. Now those chairs are actually getting used
and the kitchen table is in a more open and inviting space.  
It all works so much better now and it looks like we did the place over. 
More pics soon… 
Oh, what a half price sale rug can do for a bathroom… really
warmed it up.  And those two little topiary trees…
you wouldn’t think to put them in a bathroom but they
add just the right non-bathroom  anti-antiseptic touch. 
My Christmas Cactus haven’t even waited for Thanksgiving this year…



the boyz in raincoats…

Bailey with the look thats saying –  “Nooo, really? Now? But I’m comfortable, mom.”  – 
 not wanting to give up her perch so I can change the bedding… 

         The holiday season is upon us and I’m looking forward to sharing food and laughs and stories with others and I pray for peace to blanket the earth, for sanity and Good to trump all else. One can always hope.  As always, thanks for stopping by.

As far back as I can remember

 …. we have not had this much snow and cold temps for such an extended period of time.  My poor guys have been plowing and shoveling and salting and sanding for what seems like eons.  There is no place to put the new snow that is currently blanketing our blanket of snow. Parking lots in this area look like snow fortresses, the banks are now so high.

 Do any of you remember Bob Ross?  The afro sporting happy God Bless fella who used to have a painting show on TV  – back in the day-?  I loved  him.. .. he could whip up glorious paintings in 20 minutes where if you had all the “stuff”, you could follow along and create something not too horribly awful…. and he was always always upbeat, happy, wishing you well.   
This picture has been circulating FB and it has me laughing…


So today as I sit here typing on my NEW COMPUTER THAT IS INDEED COMPATIBLE WITH ADOBE CLOUD and  finally I am all set and ready to go with no more bullsh*t chats with Adobe techs in India….. I am also looking out over snow covered everything, and it’s still coming down from the skies.

The dogs have been doing a lot of this… 

And I have been dragging out the spring decorations because ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. 

These beautiful owls were intended as Tree ornaments, but I love them so much I found them
a permanent home perched in the little trees on either side of my Marthas Vineyard Blue Moon.

Cadbury Eggs = CRACK,   in case you weren’t aware. 

 As always, thanks for stopping by and I hope you all have a good day. 

Atmosphere is everything

I’ve just returned from barn and coop chores…  IT IS COLD OUT THERE!  The guys stocked the feed room in the barn with more hay this morning so that if we’re whopped with a lot of snow any time soon, I’m ready. I also gave the chickens fresh bedding and the rabbits fresh hay.   I’m still getting eggs from the hens, in part because I do have a flood light in their coop which gives them just a little warmth. Many  people don’t believe in providing heat but I just don’t feel right about it when it’s 0 degrees out there.  I do keep it moderate, hence the low watt flood light instead of a heat lamp, a trick one of the guys at the local hardware store told me. 

 This is the time of year when I take a look around the place and see what needs sprucing up, organizing, a little bit of change, some throwing out.  So… I’ve glanced around the kitchen….. Have you ever paid much attention to the lighting in your living space?   The right kind of lighting can make all the difference as far as atmosphere.  While it might be tempting to put BIG light in areas that you will be working… I find it annoying and unsettling… i.e. florescent overhead lights for work spaces in the kitchen or recess lighting in ceilings that makes you feel more like you’re under surveillance.  Yuck.    Right over my kitchen sink.. where I spend a lot of time!…. there is a beautiful window with a big granite shelf.  The lighting for this area is that recessed lighting I mentioned above.  I hardly ever use it because it’s stark.  I rely on the kitchen island pendant lights behind it and they just weren’t giving off enough light over at the sink.   If you can believe it, it never dawned on me until last week that I could plug in a very small lamp on that shelf because there is an outlet…. right there… for that purpose!   My grandmother did this and my mom has a small lamp at her sink window too. What a lovely glow it casts on the kitchen in the evening.  We keep it on all night as the night light for the downstairs area too. 

Little touches like this can make all the difference – warm lighting downcast with soft shades. 
I also cleaned up the hallway between the two kids rooms upstairs. The old blue dresser that was against the hall window is now out of the picture and the once stark walls are now filled with artwork and photographs from the kids and I over the years.  I also found these beautiful little glass and metal votives at Pier 1 and set them on the window.  The small hallway is now open and colorful instead of cramped and stark. 
  It doesn’t have to cost much to bring a new vitality and warmth to the atmosphere in your home. All it takes is a fresh perspective. During these cold winter months when we are in more than we are out – why not take a look around and do a little tweaking. It’s good for the soul.  Got some tips or tricks of your own? Share with me in the comments section – 

Getting it out of the house

 As I sit here typing, the snow flurries float past my windows and shortly I shall be pulling up the bootstraps and putting on the layers to trudge up the hill to the barn.  While I adore my horses and chickens, these are the days when I say… “why am I doing this, again?”   *sigh*

 I got the rest of WINTER out of my house.  I don’t need to see it INSIDE as well as outside.  This here is the stretch of New England Grey days that could drag a spirit down if you let it be so.  I bring out the hearts right about now every year.  

 My Christmas Cactus is a little confused… but I like the result.

…and who doesn’t love crocus in bloom when snow still rests on the lawn. 
(thank you Raven)
Last years Hydrangea dried beautifully… all I did was snip the blooms in early fall before they
withered, and stuck the stems in these vessels… They’ve held up very well. 
My winter mantle and side board table are now something a little more cheery, 
a reminder of the gardens that will bloom again. 
Bailey’s favorite spot – winter sun on the hearth…

 Amazing, how well they dry and hold up. 

I love the old plow horse shoes we find now and then on the farm..
some are buried in the old stone walls, some were used as fence rail holders.
If I were sew-handy I would make a skirt to attach under this side table. 
Any recommendations? 
Maybe I can tack a curtain along the underneath?  Hmmm…
Many dog day afternoons lately, too cold to stay out for very long,
too lazy to do the bundling up required to go for those nice long walks.

Off to the barn and coop – 
It’s a new day, all! – you know the drill…
SALLY in Florida.. had the correct ending to my  post yesterday..
It’s a Beautiful Thing!
She’ll be getting a few fun gifts in the mail shortly.