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When all that is golden is lost
Ath*ns
S*chi
Getting back to what really matters
I’ve been getting tangled up in the ugliness of our current political scene and my body has been telling me it doesn’t appreciate the stress. I’m sure many of you can relate… when you’re the kind of person who can’t help but Give A Sh*t about what’s going on out there, how people are treating each other, how disrespectful and downright hateful some of the conversation is…. well, it’s just hard to tune it out. Every time I sit at the computer to work at my editing job or scan facebook, I peek at CNN and the headlines are always – not the good stuff-. When the husband and I sit down at night to watch a little TV before bed, we check the news. Same negative crap. I was just about to start a post on the increasingly obnoxious behaviors of our political candidates, one in particular who just keeps unraveling.. and yet!!… (ah, but I digress).
What’s a girl to do.
I’m purposefully redirecting my attention to the little things. They’re actually the big things, the most important things that bring me moments of peace and calm and absolutely, joy.
My kids made me an empty nester this year – I’ve shared some of my horror at the thought with you in previous posts. If you haven’t already experienced it yourself, I can tell you that it’s not all bad. (Wow, did I just say that.) Oh, I do miss the sound of their heavy footfalls upstairs as they rouse themselves in the morning, and the breakfast and dinner chatter that occurred on a near daily basis. SOMETIMES I miss making big meals regularly that will feed four plus leftovers, but on that particular point I don’t miss the gigantic grocery shopping and I enjoy making simpler meals more often for just the two of us. What’s awesome is both of my children live in the next town over, just ten minutes away, and they’re doing great – they are responsible with work, love their own spaces and they take care of their “stuff”, including bill paying and learning to cook. You know you did something right when they do those things and enjoy the process.
Icing on the cake – we still see them regularly and they ENJOY coming home to visit.
A text I got from my son yesterday – He had gone fishing after work…
“So I didn’t catch anything but it was pretty awesome, no one else fishing, high tide, 3 people had easel set up and were painting the bridge, saw two horseshoe crabs and a really cool big dark brown bird with a huge beak was hanging out ten feet away. “
…and this pic from my daughter – Look at the tomatoes on my girl’s window sill – she’s got two big patio pots on the back deck of her condo and she’s proud of the harvest, as am I.
They’re noticing .. and appreciating.. the little things. The important stuff.
– It’s a beautiful thing.
And because I can’t be anything but me…. let me just end this post today with these words of wisdom I would like to bestow upon the powers-that-might-be.….
Enough said –
But does he really want the job? (Viewer Discreption advised once again)
MV 2016
We also had breakfast one morning at the Right Fork Diner, at the Katama Air field. This plane
was made in 1940, the wings made of cloth, if you can believe it. You, too, can take a 45 minute ride around the island in this dual winged beauty. We declined – as the Mr. said… “There are many risks in life, and you have to decide which are truly worth the possible worst outcome. For me, This ain’t one of them”.
Alley’s General Store has been in operation since 1858… it’s so chock full of sillyness and well as the necessities, a visit isn’t complete without a stop in at Alleys just to see what’s new and piled high and grab a drink or three for the trek up island.
When opposites occupy one household
Fibromyalgia
I’ve always been a pretty active person, and shoveling shit, hauling water buckets and chucking hay bales has been part of my repertoire for over 30 years. So… some muscle ache and pain is to be expected, right? But lately, my 51 year old self has been in chronic pain.. everywhere. Every muscle is sore and stiff, especially the bigger ones – the traps, the lats, arms, the glutes, the calves, thigh muscles.. everything.
A visit to my GP and a lot of bloodwork, twice, revealed all looks good there. An Xray shows stable degeneration in the arthritic neck, but nothing horrible. Off to the rheumatologist I went for further examination and she concluded I am a classic case of fibromyalgia.
Because I am on meds for high blood pressure and I truly hate being on meds of any kind, I am not going to add pills to this regimen as I am sensitive to just about every med there is anyway. I am looking for organic ways to improve this fibro pain, and so far what I come up with is mild exercise and good sleep. (ha!) It’s hard to exercise when every muscle in your body says OUCH with every step. But, I will do it. Sleep comes easy but STAYING asleep does not. Not sure how I’m going to work on that. Another pill was recommended. *sigh I hate that cycle.
So, if any of you has experience with this ghost disease, would you be willing to share your coping methods/remedies? I’m all ears (and muscle pain).
Porch Sitting and Community gathering and OH, what a SUCKY MOVIE, but a few good books
ALL LIVES MATTER
All lives matter! I sympathize with every single human who loses their life unjustly and lord knows there is injustice In this world daily. Sadly, racism ( of all kinds!) still exists and I doubt it will ever be eradicated fully due to our less than stellar human nature. Sad,embarrassing fact. I hope all of you who encourage the Black lives matter slogan are just as horrified this morning as five innocent cops lie dead and six critically wounded as you were yesterday for the two black men who were presumably unjustly killed. More so- why? Because you have no idea what your life would be like without the law should you need protection. We are damn lucky there are men and women willing to put their life on the line every single life- loving day for YOU and ME, regardless of color. If we keep encouraging separatism we are adding fuel to the fire. Are there some rogues? You betcha. In every walk of life. What we need to do is work on poverty and education issues, and people need to step up and help themselves and stop destructive behavior- whatever their color. ALL LIVES MATTER.
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And I gotta say this… from the very beginning when he came on the scene and I thought it was surely a joke (ha!) …. I don’t believe he really wants the job! Can you imagine The D*nald leaving the comfort and security of his ultra lavish home(s) to live in the paltry by comparison White House with all it’s high security and staff and demands and necessary regimens and you know, people that he’d actually have to answer to and work with and not just boss around? …. You think he actually wants to be so CONTAINED??…. Hell.. no. No, I don’t think he ever really wanted the job.. but now with his cult following and that ginormous ego, he’s STUCK. Unless he finds a save-face way out. Like getting fed up with the GOP and going independent. I wouldn’t put that past him, because I honestly don’t think he WANTS THE JOB.