don’t you think?
and it doesn’t matter the reason…
a holiday light display, most often your spirits are lifted.
Middle aged musings from farm & hearth
I’m halfway to the finish line with my newest project. These shoes are part of it and they represent something. I’m hoping it’s obvious when it’s done. Does anyone see it yet?
This casserole dish is devoured by my kids and guests alike. Very easy to make – light and fluffy and satisfying, with a simple taste that is delicious. I’m adding it to the Thanksgiving table. My picky teen thinks I’m the best cook ever when I make this…and hey, whenever a teenager thinks I’m doing something RIGHT… I’m bound to repeat it… because that’s a Blue Moon kind of thing around here.
Fresh Corn Spoon Bread
Gourmet Magazine – serves six
Ingredients:
2 cups whole milk
1/3 cup yellow cornmeal
1 1/2 cups fresh corn kernels (from 2 to 3 ears) (or 1 can)
1 tablespoon unsalted butter
1 teaspoon salt
4 large eggs, separated
Preheat oven to 425°F.
Bring milk, cornmeal, corn kernels, butter, and salt to a boil in a 3-quart heavy saucepan over moderately high heat, stirring frequently, and simmer, stirring constantly, until thickened, 3 to 4 minutes. Remove from heat and cool 5 minutes, stirring occasionally, then whisk in yolks.
Beat whites and a pinch of salt with an electric mixer at medium speed just until soft peaks form. Whisk one fourth of whites into cornmeal mixture in pan to lighten, then fold in remaining whites gently but thoroughly. Spread mixture evenly in a buttered 9 1/2-inch deep-dish glass pie plate or 1 1/2-quart shallow casserole and bake in middle of oven until puffed and golden, 15 to 20 minutes. Serve immediately (like a soufflé, spoon bread collapses quickly).
http://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/printerfriendly/Fresh-Corn-Spoon-Bread-106756#ixzz15XLeRxRO
Unfortunately, in the 25 years that I have been “off-island”, it’s rapidly become a congested hub of traffic, pollution (both air and ground) overcrowding of housing – duplex after fourplex after sixplex of apartment and condo units with nary a hint of appealing architecture and barely a nod toward horticulture. Historic structures have been removed at an alarming rate and there doesn’t seem to be any sort of movement with momentum to stop the madness.
By Matt Chaban
This is a video of the young woman who just two days ago won the AQHA World Show Amatuer Trail class in Oklahoma. For those of you who are not of the horsey set, this is like winning the Olympics! Our little farms were side by side for many years and I am proud to say I KNEW HER WHEN!..
Is it just me or is my age showing? I am not fond of this not-so- new and wildly popular trend in TV viewing – in particular, Reality TV. It seems to thrive on the exploitation of all the weaknesses of the human race – like general stupidity and selfishness and superficial material worship among other things. I don’t blame the participants…No.. I blame the people who came up with these shows AND the viewers who make them so wildly popular. The reality stars are just making a living.
I’m sure you’ve all heard of Jersey Shore by now, because it’s beyond wildly popular..and I just have to laugh out loud. It’s my old stomping grounds from back in the day.
A conversation with my 14 year old:
Him: Mom, did you ever hear of Jersey Shore? It’s so cool, you gotta see it. There’s this girl.. Snookie?…
Me: Yes, I know the show. Actually, I know the place, intimately!
Him: YOU DO NOT. …Jersey SHORE??… were you ever, like, THERE?….
Me: Yeah, I was theah. As many weekends as I cud get theah. It’s wheah we hung ou
(“t” is silent heah, and you say the first pawt of “out” hawd and fast and end it quick)
Him: You Did Not. OMG you’re talking LIKE THAT!!!
Me: Yeah so wut. Go pahk the caw faw me and don’t step in the wahta outside the daw.
Him: Mom, STOP, you sound so WEIRD.
Me: Whateva
My standard attire, my basic wardrobe, the outfit I’de pick if I had to wear just one thing for the rest of my life would be without a doubt… blue jeans and a t-shirt.
Did you know…
The upstairs hallway is very narrow and sits between the kids’ bedrooms. When the shop closed recently I brought home this awesome blue dresser that we used for displays, but I had no idea where I’de put it. I found it at Homegoods two years ago in the sale department and fell in love. I don’t decorate with blue though, so it wasn’t looking good anywhere I put it. Then it dawned on me that there were no competing colors up there and I could go blue-crazy in that one spot. So I did.
Actually, you don’t have to… because I’ll probably just send you a text. Hopefully not while driving or having dinner with my family. But if I’m being honest here, I can’t even guarantee that. And that’s what has me concerned, for a lot of reasons.
I left the house yesterday morning with a list of errands. About 15 minutes down the road I realized I had left my cell phone at home. A wave of panic flew over me and I actually contemplated adding a half hour onto my drive time just to get the damn cell phone. And that made me think. Ten years ago I did not own a cell phone. Communication was basically land line at the house, snail mail and WOW NEW THING – E_MAIL!…and that was awesome…and sufficient! How did I become so attached to my cell phone ? (now an iphone, which I love and can’t imagine living without ).
To be fair, what I love about it the most is the clear communication of text because I’m hearing impaired and it’s easier. Even more importantly, there’s the access to my kids, especially when they are out and I want to check on them. But even THIS has it’s down side for me. Because now that I have “instant access” to the knowledge of their wellbeing and whereabouts (within reason, I’m not stupid) …sometimes, if they aren’t near their phone or it’s turned off.. there’s a new wave of panic, and that’s just silly. I do remember my own childhood, afterall, when there were no cell phones. Basically after breakfast on weekends we did our chores begrudgingly, and headed out into the neighborhood. “Be back when the streetlights come on”… said my mother. When I was a teen, I’de have track meets after school. I’de get on a city bus that would take me to where I had to go, come home at some point and that’s when I’de touch base with my mom again. That’s it! It worked and I’m still here to blog about it. In raising my own children I wouldn’t call myself a “helicopter parent”.. but in some ways and thanks to cell phone technology, I suppose that shoe fits.
I don’t generally text and drive. I preach this to my kids on a regular basis. Honesty hitting me square in the face again and forcing me to come clean, though… not long ago MY SON said to me.. “Mom, stop texting and driving”… and I looked over and said “I’m not, I”m just reading a text ____ sent me”… and he said “SAME THING! If you saw me doing that when I get my license you’de scream at me”. and he’s right!. That conversation shamed me… how can I preach safety to my kids if I’m not practicing what I preach. I’m glad my son called me on it, and every time I’m tempted I remember that conversation. I’m sorry it had to happen in the first place.
Not long ago we were sitting in a Texas Long Horn restaurant. Across the isle were another family.. five children ages approx. 7-18 and two adults. ALL of them… all of them… were texting continuously, rarely stopping to throw a sentence at each other. This continued for a full hour until they got up and left. When I walk down a city street (I noticed this in NYC) people are texting, talking, reading while walking. Totally connected to whoever it is on the other end of their gadget… totally DISconnected from the world around them. I see teens gathered at sports events, standing together but silent.. texting someone somewhere else. NOT connecting with each other. What is this going to do to the new generation’s ability to socialize, interact face-to-face? We’ve become so -connected- we’re not even speaking to the person next to us or enjoying the moment we are living in, doing whatever it is we are doing in that moment. Even on my recent rail trail ride on my horse… I had the cell phone in use, even though I was enjoying a beautiful day with two friends on a scenic ride in a new place.
It’s ironic, this new world of total connection.
Where is this all leading?.. because it’s not going away. We do have the power to put the phone down, though.. and it’s something I’m going to try to do more often.
All photos courtesy google and whoever took them.