Random Thoughts on a Wednesday morning

 I’m full of them today… are you ready?

 
  I’d really love a magnolia tree to plant in the yard as a mothers day gift.  Do you think the family will read my post? 

   Do you know, the least likely people to read your posts if you blog, will be your family?  My mom is a writer, a reader, a supportive mother, and a computer user.  Other people in town tell her the latest recipes and stories and pictures of family I’ve posted on the blog.  My husband walks into the local breakfast place and a favorite resident of mine will tease him about the latest silliness. And yes, silliness lives here.   That same favorite resident friend also knows more about my family than an Uncle whose family I lived with for four years when I was young.  Perhaps it’s redundant… after all, they already know you, right

  I’m maybe a little bit horrified that the jury in the Jodi Ar*as trial is still deliberating.  Really?  Do they really need three days (so far!)  to figure this one out?  It’s kinda cut and dried information they were given, no?  Actually… stabbed!..27 times, slashed throat, then bullet to the head…and left to ferment in a shower stall naked for five days…  that kind of cut and dried.  If they come back with anything like a hung jury, a mistrial, an aquital… our system is shot and millions of dollars have just been wasted on this waste of a human being.  She’s selling T-shirts and artwork and tweeting online… that’s disgusting, after what she’s done.  How is this allowed?

this is her MUG SHOT… seriously?

  Amazing and also horrifying, the story of three woman and a child held captive and God knows what else for 10 years, all living within two miles of where they were abducted.  By three brothers.  That means three brothers all agreed that this was an acceptable thing to do to these women and the child.  And they did it for ten years.  TEN… YEARS…. of those young lives, spent locked in a basement and God knows what else.    Long road to recovery for them, so glad they made it out alive.

   I just noticed I’m starting to sound like Nancy Grace 🙂

 
 The Monsanto Protection Act – Anonymously added to a recent budget bill, the controversial rider would protect U.S. biotech companies from litigation if their GMO seeds turn out to be dangerous. GMO means Genetically Modified Organisms.  GMOs are created by Monsanto and other biotech firms. While there’s no hard evidence that GMOs can harm humans, some worry about undiscovered health risks and the possibility of manmade genes spreading to wild plants, potentially wreaking ecological havoc.  

  That’s bull.  If you’re gonna mess with the food supply, you better take responsibility and be held accountable.  Producing GMO’s is a huge money maker… that shouldn’t have anything to do with jeapardizing your health, and yet it always does. 

  Here’s a link if you’re interested in reading about the bill on the table to label our foods GMO if they contain genetically modified ingredients.  It also explains why some are opposed.  MONEY has everything to do with it, not your health.

http://vtdigger.org/2013/05/07/gmo-labeling-bill-positioned-for-action-next-session/

  I want my food labeled, I don’t think that’s too much to ask.  At the very least, I should be able to make my own decision on whether I want my family to ingest GMOs.  It is believed by many that so many people are now having trouble ingesting wheat (you are probably aware of the Gluten-Free issue.. not only for celiacs but others who are finding they feel a heck of a lot better when they don’t ingest things that contain Gluten).  WHEAT… (gluten) is a big GMO crop. Modified to be more disease resistant and grow faster, heartier.  Perhaps that is why the wheat of years ago, before GMO, was a main stable and not the serious allergen that it appears to be today.

   
 It’s gonna rain today, I’m doing a happy dance.  I can’t tell you how very dry everything is here at This Old House.  Bring it!

   After the horses and chickens are fed and let out and barn is mucked and gardens are watered and laundry is switched and folded and put away and the dishes that piled up in the sink after this morning’s breakfast are cleaned and stacked,  I’ll be working on my found treasure – that old dollhouse I told you about.  Why do I feel guilty about that, I ask you?

  It’s a new day, all – make it a good one!

The Tale of Two Tuxes

   One of my son’s friends is staying with us for a few days while his parents are away. 
Yesterday, at breakfast before school…
ME: Boys, put your tuxes together for me so that I can return them today.
THEM:  (the obligatory head nod acknowledgement of the request)
Later in the morning I go upstairs for the tuxes…
Someone understood the instructions.
The other?… my husband would say..
he’s just like is mother.
(*ahem)  

Letting it Go

       I like people.  I like to get along with people.  I really don’t want drama in my life if I can keep away from it…most of the time I’ve been successful, but not always.   The way I see it.. we only come through this life once.  We only get this one chance to live our best life.  Negativity, jealousy, meanness, attitude,  drama, and all the things that go hand in hand with it… shouldn’t be given any valuable space in a person’s life. 

     I struggled with a relationship that for a long while left me frustrated and hurt.  I knew I was extending myself to try and grow it, but it just wasn’t taking.  And occasionally there were obvious slights or a coldness or I heard remarks of disapproval.  And that would hurt too.  I looked for what might be done differently on my side of things to change the outcome, but I knew that I’ve always had good intentions, so what could I change?

     I am finding that one of the gifts of aging is having the ability to see things more clearly as you go, appreciating what  is good and nourishing in your life and recognizing what is simply toxic.   I was trying to forge what I thought was an important relationship with a person who just wasn’t interested.   I believe now it’s as simple as that. We’re very different, not much in common. She would never choose the path I walk and I would never choose hers.  Nothing wrong with that.   One more revelation –    I didn’t need her approval and I’m still not sure why it bothered me  for so very long that I didn’t have it.  It doesn’t matter the reason.

    And so I’ve stopped trying,  I’ve accepted that it is what it is, and I believe I have finally let..it..go.  There is a peace in doing this, give it a try if you find yourself in a similar situation.   

“95% percent of the time, whatever the crap is you’re being handed by someone that is totally perplexing to you… really has nothing to do with you. “

” Why grieve over a relationship that never really was? What exactly do you think you’re missing? “

And.. LOVE THIS…

Holding on to anger
is like drinking poison
 and expecting the other person to die. 

Just sayin – Amen.  

Junior Prom

aaah, Youth.
Best buddies since kindergarten…

I’d never make a good wedding photographer, (tis TRUE, Tim!)
The girls were freezing, and the boys were fidgety – like maybe all had temporary ADHD…
or something.
We did the best we could, but jeez, aren’t they all beautiful?



Blooms & Green

What a difference a few weeks makes..
We’ve got blossoms on the fruit trees….
The pasture grass is rich and green…
The Phlox in my seaside real estate perennial garden is happy…

Onions are coming up…  The actual onion stays in the ground.
Once the greens start to fall over you know your onion is ready to harvest.
Our little greenhouse is loaded with baby vegetable plants..
and the roses and peonies outside are happy.
All those pots are full of dirt and ready for replanting of smaller seedlings on the right.
All are in need of thinning out so that the main plant can grow strong.
 Are you gardening this year?
Have you planted seeds or will you buy plants at the garden center?
Trying anything new this year?
I’ve got purple dragon carrots to plant and Italian Ice tomatoes on the way.
They’re white!!..

Sprung from the pound!

Dog Days is gearing up for another Adoption event in Saybrook on May 18th.
Here’s what happens…
See Okie girl below?
Sitting in a kill shelter just days ago…

A rescue group found her waiting to die,
spent time with her and realized she was a loving pup who would
most likely find a family to love her if she was in the right setting.
So they sprung her from death row along with another pup.
Here they are on their “freedom ride” .
Look at the Joy on their faces already. 
Do you have goosebumps yet?  
Both are vetted and in quarantine now, being loved by their rescue group,
getting ready to come to our adoption event May 18th.
So that’s how it works. 
Here are a few more lucky dogs who’ve been sprung and will be available
May 18th and 19th at Dog Days. 
This little girl yet to have a name…
Sporty…

Terence

Dee Dee

My very own fixer upper

Me: TEXT –  Hey, what do you think of this house? Any potential?
The electric and flooring are shot.
(photos sent)

Him: TEXT –  Where is that house?  and… something looks …really off. 
Me: TEXT – LOL….it’s in our driveway.
Now, I know it ain’t much
and it’s kinda flimsy and old and dilapidated and outdated.
But.. I’ve always wanted to decorate a dollhouse, don’t ask me why..
I have never been a fan of actual “dolls”.  Terrified me as a girl.
But a dollhouse?  That needs renovation?
Awesome. $40 find in an old treasures store?… even more awesome.
Anyone know how I can tell what scale “stuff” I’m supposed to buy?
floor to ceiling in rooms measures 8″.   I’ve googled that question but I’m still confused about the scaling.
Some sites tell me to buy 1″ scale, others tell me to buy 1/2 scale.  HUH?
I did order new wood flooring and tile for the bathroom so far.
The electrical has been ripped out. 
Any advice? 
I final bought my very own fixer upper 🙂 

Because sometimes you just gotta be bad

I haven’t tried this yet, but you can bet it’s on my list.  I know, I know… I blab on and on about eating healthy, etc.  But sometimes you just have to sin now and again to make life interesting.   I’m not a big fan of pineapple in baked goods.  Do you think I could get away with leaving it out?

Banana Split Pie

3 cups graham cracker crumbs
1 stick butter, melted
8-oz cream cheese, softened
1 cup sugar
3 large eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla
16-oz sour cream
3 bananas, sliced
20-oz can crushed pineapple
Maraschino cherries, with or without stems, for garnish
1 cup pecans, toasted and chopped
Whipped cream or cool whip
Grated chocolate, optional  (who says??)
Preheat the oven to 325 degrees.
In a 13×9 baking dish, melt butter in microwave, then add graham cracker crumbs and mix well, pressing the mixture onto the bottom; set aside.

Combine the cream cheese, sugar, and vanilla in another mixing bowl and beat with an electric mixer until light and fluffy.

Add the eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition, until completely blended.
Spread this mixture evenly over the graham cracker crust and bake for 30 minutes.

Remove from the oven, spread the sour cream over the cream cheese mixture, and bake for 15 minutes longer.

Remove from the oven and cool completely.
While base is cooling, drain crushed pineapple and slice bananas into 1/4″ slices; gently toss pineapple and bananas together.
When cool, layer the pineapple and banana mixture over the sour cream and then spread the whipped cream evenly over the top.

Dust with grated chocolate, if desired, then sprinkle with the chopped pecans and the cherries.

Refrigerate for at least 2 hours before serving

Whipped Cream
2 cups heavy whipping cream
1/4 cup powdered sugar
1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla

Beat whipping cream until soft peaks form – texture should be billowy.
Stir in powdered sugar and vanilla.
Use immediately.

Source:  http://www.louanneskitchen.com/2011/03/save-room-for-dessertbanana-split-pie.html

It’s a beautiful thing

Forgive me for this boast, ok?
I am brimming with happiness this morning
after an awesome weekend with my girl and her horse.
Our senior boy, Max, was an absolute gentleman.
and K?… did fantastic, remembered her patterns in horsemanship
and even managed a few blue ribbons at her first QH show.
And I’ll share something with you.
I don’t know if I’ll ever stop welling up with tears
every time I hear her name called over the loudspeaker for a placing.
It must look ridiculous to others.   
Sometimes the tears come just because I see her smiling out there
enjoying life and riding that horse.
Still fresh in my mind is the picture of that same person hooked up to
life supporting machines with the question of whether
 there would ever be life again at all.
Remember this… should God Forbid… you ever find yourself
in a horrible situation that might look like your worst nightmare…
There is always hope.. there is always the possibility of recovery,
and life will go on. Sometimes better than you can pray for or imagine
in those darkest of hours. 
Proof below.  
These are just some of the crew from the barn.
Truly, they are like family… so good to share the experience with
such a nice group of people.

It’s all good.